Our good friend and retired blogger KDPierre will introduce this week's brunch topic: "OK, so you've done 'frequency' and 'amount'. It seems the next logical question is 'damage'."
It is indeed the next logical question, so here goes.
What is the usual level of damage after a spanking? Pink skin, rhino skin, swelling, blistering, welts, abrasion/wet spots, bruising, sore for an hour or two, a day or two, a week or two? What was the worst post-spanking butt-condition you've experienced?
As always, please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has weighed in, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
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By this stage, I imagine no one wants to hear me say, "It depends." But it does. The spankings I receive are seldom what I expect. So it is with the skin damage. I can have marks from a spanking I didn't think was that bad and just a nice red glow from another session I thought was brutal.
If I have to describe "usual" marks, there probably aren't any, just two reddish pink ovals on my sit spots. I am more likely to see marks after Randy uses a solid hairbrush or bath brush. The edges of these implements can leave dark red welts, especially when used repeatedly and with emphasis. Wooden paddles also create distinctive marks - sometimes a little bruisey-looking.
I like the term rhino skin. I've had that, especially after getting the paddle. I've had skin breaks, mostly from whippy implements, but we try to avoid it.
I love a good afterburn where my bottom still feels hot and throbbing hours later, but that's not the norm.
I've had two occassions worthy of posting about; all others I have been pink to red and tender for an hour or two.
The first experiece I had that was not the norm for us was early on in our lifestyle. My wife used a hearty flip flop for an extended period. While the coloring was not the red the effect on my butt was. My butt burned/stung for hours; we had guest over for dinner shortly after the spanking. I kept fidgiting in my seat looking to lessen the pain. Sitting for the next day and half was tender.
The second time and worse spanking I got was when I had really upset my wife. She used her hand, a ping pong paddle, then my etremely heavy and braided leather belt. I was very red and bruised. I struggled to sit that evening and was tender for days. The bruising was not completely cleared for two weeks.
Well today’s an interesting day to ask this question. Irene has suddenly developed a methodical, extended prevalence for the devastating two-tailed strap with a round handle. It’s been a week since she used it and my bottom is still sore indeed.
Sometimes I’ll cut a switch, which often in our area is a shoot from a wild plum tree. These leave welts, even small cuts - a delicious sting that lasted however only a few hours. The welts are pretty much gone the next day.
The serious impacts, however, have been hurting my back and neck from getting carried away during these passionate shenanigans. Hopefully I’ve learned.
Rosco
Implements certainly matter and in all these years I have had my share of welts, nubby blisters, bruises, cuts, and those characteristic whitish dry spots in the center of the larger pink areas. But for me I would say that because I have been doing this a long time and have been mostly spanked with heavy paddles, I do get 'rhino butt' most often.....which is like having your regular flesh turn into a kind of swollen, leather, fake-feeling thick skin....which is also hot and red. ( by coincidence I'm actually sitting on such a butt right now as I type this! LOL and ouch)
After a heavy spanking that is my most usual degree of damage.....but the WORST I've ever experienced was one time having the skin literally (and intentionally) spanked off my two cheeks resulting in twin oval wet spots of abraded flesh about the size of an egg. On this particular occasion I had to wear feminine napkins inside tight underwear to keep from leaking clear fluid through my pants....which happened on my drive home from the house of the person who delivered this spanking. The pain was horrible and it took a couple of days to finally scab over, and way longer for those two spots to return to normal. After that experience she has been careful to avoid that level of damage, but on occasion I still get abraded by my wife, but at the first sign of it, she avoids that spot or stops and it scabs over in a very short time without the extended period of leaking or healing. But like I said, this is VERY rare and seems to occur only after a very heavy paddling.
I have also had some minor stippling of tiny dots of blood on occasion, but while one would think blood was the worst, it's actually very minor compared to wet, abraded patches.
The Misses will paddle the hell out of my bottom right before she leaves for a girl’s night out. This is so I remember to behave while she is gone. I will be sore for hours and marks for a couple of days. Whippings with the belt or strap leave me sore for a couple of days and marks for about a week.
I have given the Misses a few paddlings that left her sore for the day and bruises the next day. She will complain for hours, even a day later after whippings. She will have strap marks on her bottom for days.
It varies from pink cheeks that I may still feel the following day to some, at times very dark bruising, marking and welts that could last for a week. It depends on the nature of the spanking and implements used.
Rick is a fan of nipple play also so I also often have very sore nipples for a day or two post spanking.
Hugs
Roz
As I get spanked by different people, the end results depend very much on the Top handing out the spanking. This I like, as variety is the spice of life and Top's usually give a better spanking when they can spank in the way that they like, with what they like. I can end up with anything, from nicely pink all over, that was gone in less than two hours to swollen and welted, where I can feel the welts, with my fingers, for up to 10 days after the event. I have never had a blister from a spanking.
As for the second part of the question. That was related to a change in medication for my blood condition. Just after which I was hand spanked, strapped and caned by Femke Vandendijk, a very challenging spanker. After that, I was black and blue for nearly 6 days, with good cane welts that outlasted the bruising. I am not sure that I would describe this as one of the worst post-spanking experiences but more of one of the most long-lasting and the best post-spanking experiences, that I have had :)
Prefectdt
My wife leaves no marks, but my skin is very red, stinging, warm to touch, and well walking is hard to do. The bath brush brings has me crying at times, afterwards it is facing the wall, and sometimes facing her. I mouthed out to my mother-in-law, she arrived to see me in the corner. Well I was soon over her lap, and it was as close as my bare bottom has gotten to having marks. It was red for at least a week. Jack
As others have said, it depends. I will say that I feel disappointed if there isn't sufficient bruising evidence on my bottom after a sound punishment. I confess that I have intentionally bratted while OTK to insure that there will be evidence for days left behind on my behind. I think that I hate wooden implements so much is not solely because of their infernal sting, but also due to the ashy gray skin their application results in. I vividly remember complaining about this once, and my lover rubbed skin lotion in, only to paddle me more right after on moist buttocks, which REALLY hurt! I would be remiss if I did not acknowledge that it was the elation I felt from the heavy bruising on my butt that made me realize I was a confirmed spanko. I am happiest if it hurts to sit. I do not wear thong-type bathing suit bottoms, preferring bikini bottoms. And I'm proudest when a little corner of rounded, brightly-bruised cheekiness peeks out for all to see.
Warmly,
Jean Marie
"What is the usual level of damage after a spanking? Pink skin, rhino skin, swelling, blistering, welts, abrasion/wet spots, bruising, sore for an hour or two, a day or two, a week or two? What was the worst post-spanking butt-condition you've experienced?"
I have come to the conclusion I am the brunch wuss in these conversations.
My answers:
On the receiving end: Pink skin, sore for an hour or two, or eight.
On the giving end: Son-of-a-bitch!!! Pink skin, sore for an hour or two!
No rhino skin (I may have to look that one up), swelling, welts, or bruising.
I'm a romantic/erotic spanker so it is always hand spanking (NB: There have been exceptions!) When she gets off my lap her cute tush is a nice hot pink. If off the lap and kneeling in front of me, she is enthusiastically rubbing her bottom, smiling, with maybe giving out a "Whoooo!" With that part over, I...well you know; 'comfort' her. Hey! It's the law!
Really laying into the cute tush that over my lap is just not my thing. At the moment, I consider that tush MINE! My 'property.' I compare spanking her hard with a paddle or strap akin to polishing my pristine BMW with a ball-peen hammer.
A nice pink or almost red is fine and, maybe, if I do it right - I'll get asked to do it all over again!
"The worst post-spanking butt-condition I've experienced?"
OK. On the receiving end. There have only been three. But the worst was a to-die-for huggably cute brunette with slender well-turned legs that went all the way to the top. And was a switch; so I got to spank her kissable tush too! (And I did kiss it)
I had her otk, but the majority of the time it was me otk. About 300 firm smacks before the break and then me spanking her, followed by my getting her 'grande finale' of 200-300 more. When it was over she took a pic of my tush so I could get a good look at it! Ho-Lee.Shit. RED!!! With exclamation marks red! I could really feel it, and this was going to take some time to heal. (If she wasn't so damn cute...) The sting-in-the-tail would still be there late into the next day. So would the memory!
And, oh shit! I had a critical medical exam coming up in 4-days! And could not re-schedule! Would it show? If he sees and asks, what do I tell him????? (I had an answer ready, but the red and pink were pretty much (I thought) gone by then. And he never asked. Whew!)
Fun fact? That spanking was all from - her bare hand.
A.J.
My current average post-spanking state sounds a lot like KD's -- very swollen, with ovals of grey-ish discoloration in the center. But, I rarely bruise much; maybe a few egg-sized bruises now and then. In the early days, I would get very, very bruised from a wooden paddle. Regarding how long the effects last, for a really hard spanking, sometimes it might last five days, but usually more like three or four.
Ironically, the worst condition my butt has ever been in was after a fall on some concrete stairs. It left a huge bruise across both cheeks that looked identical to some of our early spankings, but the pain went much, much deeper and lasted the better part of two weeks.
Our usual remnants are deep pink, think skin with welts, usually from the strap which is her favorite. Those effects are gone in a day or so. The worst comes from two implements. First, her hairbrush. It is heavy and made of oak. The back of the brush has 6 or 7 groves that run lengthwise along the back of the brush. When sternly applied, my skin will bunch up into the groves, resulting in long blood blisters. After 30 or 40 swats, my skin takes on a coarse striped look. The blood blisters hurt for several days and will last for just over a week.
The second and by far worst implement is the thin delrin cane. She rarely wields it with full force, preferring to toy with accuracy and drive up quantity. However, she has caned me once or twice at full force. Both times have resulted in deep red welts. Often times such a severe thrashing spills unintentionally over on to my right hip and thigh. I have worn those welts for up to two weeks before they heal.
My worst/best spanking was at a spanking centric group that had meets at a local, somewhat amateurish dungeon. The groups organizer, a women, had put together a game for the night's opener. The object of the game was to produce the reddest bottom from an otk hand spanking delivered to an eight song playlist of oldies. As one of about 4 un-partnered male bottoms in the group that was mostly M/F, I figured I would be watching from the sidelines, however, a woman came up late who, mostly played on the bottom side, but this night, wanted to try topping. We drew straws for the "honor", and I won.
I had seen her once at a pre-event munch and thought her very pretty with a lot of potential as she was a large women with big biceps, but figured that she was a bottom as most of the women in the group. I ending up missing the event as I needed to hit an ATM and lost track of the group that I need to follow as this was my first time and I didn't know where the dungeon was!
While waiting for the game to start, she warned me that her friends told her that she had a "heavy hand". For some reason, I just wasn't getting what she was saying, even though I asked her to repeat it a couple of times. I think my intelligence drops when I get into such a "deer in the headlights" situation.
The game started and I found myself getting quite a spanking. She further informed me and demonstrated that she was completely ambidextrous! For the seventh song, the host handed out wooden spoons! I was so into this that mush of the pain was offset. My only complaints where I wish she would have held me in position more forcefully, and half masted my underwear rather than gathered the back to bare my cheeks.
To pick the winner, the spankee's lined up and show their spanker's handiwork. My butt was judge the reddest.
A glutton for punishment, I got her to give samples of her tool bags implements. She had two sizes pig slappers, which I had always found kind of weak, but not so in her hands. I also found it somewhat hamulating, that they were decorated with a nubile woman recipient, yet here I was, a male getting beaten. Lastly, she got out a large holed flexible paddle and gave me some swats. The endorphins were doing a bang up job of keeping this all in a fun kind of state, but still being greedy, I suggest we take it over to one of the spanking knelling benches. That amped it up a bit, but then the guy paddling a woman the next bench offered her the use of some of his wooden paddles, and with those she was able to put me in some real pain.
Went home to find some real bruises that went from brown to yellow-purple over the next week, though I only felt sore for a few days. However, about a week later, my urine turned purple and got me concerned enough to have a embarrassing visit to my doctor.
appleTom
I often get the large whitish areas which usually do not last that long. I also get red welts from the cane, and these can last a day or two. Very occasionally there will be a small break in the skin from the cane. I have had bruises that last a few days but that’s rare. My inner spanko likes having marks, they are like my husband’s signature!
My wife said to point out, leaving marks, not the purpose of a spanking. It is that others know you have been spanked and she wants it know, she runs the house not the husband. The spankings should last at least three days afterwards, sitting being uncomfortable being the most important reminder of a spanking. My wife will have me take her out to eat, this is just adding to the spanking, others will see, and as she states the women will know that a spanking has been given. So it not the marks left, but the reminder when sitting, walking, that a spanking has been given, even days later. Jack
It definitely does depend on the type of spanking and implements used.
It varies from pink to very red which can last and I'll have a sting in the shower next morning to welts from the cane.
Love,
Ronnie
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