Once again, the weekend is here, and that means another spanko brunch.
Spanking is such complex activity, causing many thoughts and emotions
run through our heads before, during and after the event.
Have you ever felt embarrassed during a spanking?
Leave your reply as a comment, and after everyone has had a chance to
speak, I will publish a summary of the responses to this topic.
Slava Ukraini
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I'm sure some of them have indeed felt embarrassed during a spanking...if I do it right. :)
Better question - Have I ever *not* felt embarrassed during a spanking?
Embarrassment (safe embarrassment) is definitely a central part of the kink for me. It adds to the sense of trust. That said, the time we thought we were alone only to find a family, including a dog, walking by after Paul finished was probably the most embarrassing thing that's ever going to happen.
Well let’s see.
I delivered a spanking, actually three short spankings a few minutes apart, when I was thirteen to a girl I’d met at the beach. We weren’t far from the older kids at the bonfire and I kept the spankings short because I was afraid the older kids at the bonfire would notice and ridicule me. The girl I was spanking was clearly into it in retrospect, but I was totally unprepared for the situation and the opportunity.
When I was 16, I asked a girl to spank me. She did not respond well and I was embarrassed.
When I was 23, I spanked a girlfriend for no reason. I just couldn’t resist. Her bottom just seemed to need it. But She said “I don’t think I like that”, and I was embarrassed. She told some friends who teased me good naturedly, which made me feel a bit better.
My wife Irene said she no interest in being spanked but she’d be happy to spank me. It’s always role play with lecture and theoretical embarrassment. We’ve never been caught, but a few folks have seen our Implements and seem to know.
Rosco
I have felt embarrassed on occasion, or perhaps more accurately uncomfortable. Mainly if I have been caught by surprise by the spanking and don't feel prepared enough for it eg clothes, underwear etc
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Roz
There's the embarrassment that integral to the spanking role play (good) and the embarrassment of things like being discovered by others (not so good). I'm happy to say I've had the former and never the latter.
In my younger years, I was quite afraid of being found out a spanko and trusting someone enough to share it was huge. Now I hardly care at all and doubt anyone else would either.
I had the general embarrassment of having to be over my wife's lap and being spanked by my wife. I would say it was more so in the early days of our WLM. There were a couple times where the spanking was loud and so was I that I was embarrassed that someone might have heard. One was in our house and the other in a hotel. The fantasy in me thinks that I would "enjoy" the embarrassment of being witnessed in person or someione finding out (overheard a spanking, was told that I was a spanked husband...)
Part of the punishment my wife/mommy reminds me. The first spanking I got when my mother-in-law present, first time anyone had seen my wife/mommy spanking me. I was soon kicking, squirming, pleading, and my mother-in-law just watched. When I finally said Mommy, my wife told her mother only Mommies spank naughty little boys, and I was a very naughty little boy. When the spanking is over, the pants, underpants if not kicked off, stay down, I must face the wall. It a major part of the spankings as far as my wife/mommy is concerned. That first time my mother-in-law saw this, she said do I remember that there was no in-law in this family and I was her son, and she was my Mother, and at her home, she would be the one doing the spanking. Jack
Yes, since I have been the recipient of actual punishment spankings from several different people for a multitude of reasons over the years......with some of them being witnessed, and others having been clearly heard by members of our household, it would be very hard to have NOT felt some embarrassment at times. Also, those in my life who have/had disciplinary authority never seemed shy to scold or send me off for a spanking when others were present......and as cool as that sounds in "fantasyland" let me tell you it's a different story when it actually happens. >blush<
I don't think I've been embarrassed by a spanking itself but, as KD mentions, a serious scolding can be embarrassing and humbling.
Well, there has been all those unexpected farts, over the years :) Plenty of unplanned expletives, that I did not intend to utter. There was that time when someone spent a good five minutes telling me about her wonderful paddle, that someone had carried from the USA for her (in pre internet days) just for it to spit on my butt, on the first swat. I am sure that there are a lot more times too. But I cannot remember them all right now.
Prefectdt
I meant to write "split on my butt"
Prefectdt
We like outdoor spanking. There is always the chance of getting caught so there really is no real embarrassment for us outdoors or inside.
How about embarrassment before a spanking? My wife will require me to put on panties or hose then go out to lunch before a session. She will talk openly and out loud what implements she intends to use, how many strokes she will deliver and how hard she will whip me. I don’t know if the nearby tables can hear what she is saying but probably. When we get home she will begin to undress me and “discover” what I am wearing, telling me how cute I look. Then it is into the restraints.
Yes, definitely. For some spanking scenarios, embarrassment is part of the experience.
Just to make sure, Randy sometimes reinforces the message by asking me, questions like, "Aren't you embarrassed to get another spanking over my lap like a bad girl?" I reply in the affirmative.
Be careful what you wish for, my wife/mommy has done such to me. It is one thing to have your wife spank you, my case is punishment, the other to have it be known by some. The hotel spanking, well I could not help but to be loud, a bathbrush on a bare bottom, is the worse. Sitting in the Restuarant afterwards, trying not to squirm, the waitress noticed, my wife/mommy told her I have just gotten a spanking, this is when you want hide. Ours has been a FLR relationship, it works, the marriage is strong, but when Mommy said I'm getting a spanking, no matter where, I do as told. Jack
Responding to KDPierre and Barrel:
KD - our spankings are all role play not real punishment so presence of a third party would fulfill not ruin a fantasy I think.
Barrel - we’ve done that too - I’ve gone to lunch in panties, or sometimes done errands or housework, been teased and threatened, restrained then spanked - all wonderful fore play
Rosco
As you most know I always when talking about my wife, use wife/mommy. She reads what I look at on the computer, a few times she has forbid such. This blog and Strict Julie spanked she accepts. My responses are read by her and if not correct or tell the whole story I must correct. When be embarrased she reminds me of two times. The first was I was caught playing with myself looking at dirty pictures. She gave me such a spanking that I was squirming and kicking, just like a child. Once the spanking was over she said I will call her Mommy when I need a spanking. The other time was when my mother-in-law knowing I was spanked saw me getting a spanking. When the spanking stopped, told to face the wall, I said Yes Mommy. My mother-in-law asked why, my wife/mommy said he acts just like a naughty little boy over her lap when being spanked and so he will call me Mommy until told otherwise. I have called her Mommy with other presents, during, after a spanking or a day or so later, she decides when I will address her as my wife. Jack
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