Welcome one and all to our weekly discussion time. Last week we talked about our feelings while waiting for a spanking. This week is the followup, how we feel afterwards, taken from Bonnie's very first brunch.
How do spankings make you feel? Satisfied? Contrite? Romantic? Or just plain sore?
Please leave your response as a comment or email me. Once everyone has had a chance to weigh in, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
Just some silly signs I couldn't help laughing at. Somebody deserves a spanking for them.
Happy Friday!
Yesterday I got up at 6:30 and was at the supermarket by 7:00. The parking lot was nearly empty, which was unusual. After putting on my mask, I locked the car and walked to the entrance, where I met two early customers who told me that the early opening for people at risk had been cancelled. There was a sign on the door announcing the new opening hour was 8:00 am.
Other signs that we are getting back to normal were all around me. The beer store now permits double the number of customers - four instead of only two. When we had a package delivered, the courier wasn't wearing a mask when he handed it to me outside. The library allows patrons inside instead of picking up materials at the door, and the parking lot at the mall was so busy you would have thought it was Christmas.
Dining is still restricted to outdoors only, so it's still takeout for us..
Thanks for the pan, Pizza Hut
What's a taco chip doing in my burger?
A knife? That's a bonus. Thanks, Subway
Where's the beef?
We discussed how you feel waiting for a spanking, and here's what you said:
Jeanie: I am made to wait for almost every punishment spanking I receive. If it were up to me, this would not be the case. (But if it were up to me, I wouldn't be made to bare my bottom, receive punishment with some detested implements, or have to serve corner time.) It is not left up to me.
Hermione mentioned several words, "anxious" and "apprehensive." Both of those qualities come into play beforehand. She mentioned "eager." I am eager to get it over with. I would suggest another word, "anticipation." There is the anticipation of the pain to endure, and of the euphoria experienced afterward. I am a spanko that hates hard spankings. I fear them, but I earn them with regular frequency. I find a simple beauty in the dichotomies of the Dominance/submission arrangement. The waiting just intensifies everything.
Wendel: I almost always get paddled when the Misses has a girls' night out evening. She will announce my upcoming paddling and tell me to wait in the bedroom. The Misses will get her clothes ready and get everything else organized. Then I am informed that the spanking will take place when she gets out of the shower. I sit and wait until she returns. When she comes out of the shower I have to remove my pants and bend over the end of the bed. The Misses will paddle my bottom until I can sit. I do enjoy the wait.
I have made the Misses sit and wait in the kitchen a few times for her spanking. No real reason other than it is fun. She has to sit in a chair until I am ready. Usually about 15 minutes. When I come in the room I will have her stand and pull down her pants. I sit and take her across my lap. Her spanking can be by hand, the paddle or the belt.
Enjoy the long week end Hermione.
Roz: We have often had to wait to spank. The nature of the spanking dictated how I felt but the wait was always filled with anticipation and anxiety, particularly if it was to be a disciplinary spanking.
Anon 1: Waiting is the worse, more so than the actual spanking. Having to stand, sometimes with just my pants and underpants pulled down, or naked, I just want to get the spanking over. Normally the waiting means that another person is going to be present, that person could be my mother-in-law, friend, neighbor. These people I have been offended by my actions so get to see a grown man become a little boy.
Barrel: Unless the spanking is purely foreplay, which it often is, I have little prep time to think about it. But when we plan a session, I always begin with excitement and anticipation for several days in advance. The closer it gets, anticipation turns to apprehension, then angst as I know it will be a long and stern session. Yet, even as I place myself on the bench, I want it so badly.
Ronnie: Thankfully these days it's rare I have to wait for a spanking. When I have had to there was always anticipation and anxiety. I hated waiting.
Red: Love the idea of knowing that you will be spanked later today. Sadly, we rarely do this, so thanks for the reminder to talk to Cindy about it.
Bottoms up!
Joe: Rarely is there any wait only when I ask for one in the morning then my wife see you tonight. Sometimes I will get get a text around noon as a reminder.
Prefectdt: I just waited for about a year for the spanking that I got last week and a satisfying one it was too :) I think that waiting that long, every time, is a bit much to ask. That nice, butterflies in your tummy feeling, as you anticipate an upcoming playtime, is a nice part of the experience, but for a week or two, at the maximum please.
Rosco: Never apprehensive, often eager.
They're intense and hurt plenty
but only briefly. Once in a while an errant blow to the testicles or
hipbone is over the top - but this is seldom. If Irene is
seriously annoyed with me, we do not do the spanking thing. That would
be a bad idea for us (and I would think most other people.)
Can be frustrating when things get interrupted. It's fun to get a stern warning and have to wait a bit.
Anon 2: Because I crave it, my lovely wife gives me a hard bare-bottom spanking twice a week with a wooden paddle I made for her. As she puts it, she does it "only because I love you." We are both 80+, so this does not lead to sex. Nevertheless, it is very intimate! Afterwards, I always thank her and give her a kiss. I love the after glow that might last for a day or more.
Hermione: I always know in advance when I am going to be spanked, and I usually feel anxious in a good way. I want to hurry the clock along so it reaches the appointed time sooner. If I have to wait because of a change in plans or something unforeseen, I feel frustrated.
Brunch is over for this week. Stay safe, dear friends.
It's nice to see so many of you here today. What with Canadians taking a long weekend for Canada Day, and Americans enjoying the Independence Day holiday, that only leaves...well, quite a lot of the world, actually.
Do you sometimes have to wait for a spanking? How do you feel during the waiting period? Anxious? Apprehensive? Eager? Do you prefer waiting, or would you rather get it over with sooner?
As always, you may remain anonymous. Please respond by leaving a comment or via elail. Once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
Prefectdt: As your butt is made of wood, this really is going to hurt me more than it hurts you.
Jeanie: Jane, in her freshman
year at Vassar in the year 1928, was exceptionally bright, but
was just coasting, as she had been throughout her academic career.
Her lackadaisical attitude had finally caught up with her in
college.She was flunking several of her courses. How was she going
to tell that to her mother?
Mrs. Collins knew something was wrong with her only child. The
normally outgoing girl was sullen. Here she was home from college
for fall break with her hair bobbed and a see-through nightie as
short as the flapper's dress she'd worn home!
Jane had gone up to her bedroom to go to sleep an hour ago, but
Mrs. Collins heard noises coming from upstairs and went to
investigate. Outside the cracked bedroom door, Mrs. Collins saw and
heard what amounted to a psychological therapy session, as Jane
addressed her favorite childhood doll perched on her bare knee.
"I'm very upset with you, young lady!" Jane admonished the doll. "You haven't
been applying yourself at college, and your grades show it! You know what you need, young lady, and
that's just what you have in store." Jane stood the doll up.
"That's right, pull that obscenely short skirt up and get those
bloomers down around your ankles!" Jane seized her hairbrush from
the nearby night-table and raised it high.
"Umm-humm," Mrs. Collins cleared her throat. Jane froze as her
bedroom door slowly opened.
"I'm very upset with you, young lady," Mrs. Collins said. "You
haven't been applying yourself at college and your grades show it!
You know what you need and that's just what you have in
store."
Mrs. Collins sat on the edge of the bed. Jane stood up slowly,
guilt written all over her face. Mrs. Collins took the hairbrush
from her daughter's hand, but let her hold the doll for comfort. Up
went the hem of that short nightie, down came those gauzy
underpants.
Baxter: Why is it that every time you are naughty, I get my bare bottom spanked until it is very sore? I hate you my favorite doll. Well, not really as I do like being spanked. Be as naughty as you can.
Wendel: My boy friend Geoffrey said he would turn you into a paddle to use on me if you are naughty again.
KDPierre: If on your date tonight with Pinocchio he ends up going down on you, make sure you ask him an incriminating question and then wait for the thrill of a lifetime.
Hermione: Using her favourite doll, Grace demonstrated to Tom how she wanted him to scold and spank her.
Stay safe, everyone, and do come to our outdoor brunch, being served on the patio in a few hours.
This photo takes me back to my childhood. A young lady is in deep conversation with her doll, who seems to have misbehaved. What is she saying? What happens next?
Complete the caption by leaving a comment, and I will publish your submissions on Saturday.
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