Do you ever use a blindfold for the bottom receiving the spanking? If so, how does it change the dynamic? If not, is it something you might consider trying?
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When I told my wife this question, she said never. She wants me to see the hairbrush. knowing what it is about to do. If someone might be present during the spanking my seeing that person will help to insure the spanking is getting across. Nothing worse than for someone to witness an adult being spanked like a naughty little boy. Jack
Part of the punishment is seeing what is going to be used if anything to spank me. The hairbrush is the most common in my case, but my wife found a nice large paddle and that is used when as she states "very naughty". Seeing that I plead, beg, anything to avoid that being used. Falls on deaf ears, and the spanking dance I do afterwards she really enjoys until told to face the wall, no rubbing or else.
I really don't like blindfolds for two main reasons. 1. I wear glasses so I have to find somewhere safe to put them and then after the punishment remember where I put them and 2. I like to see the person punishing me particularly her eyes. Nothing beats gazing into the eyes of someone who is about to or who has just finished punishing you.
When my wife disciplines me there is a procedure!
1) I am to go up to our bedroom, undress and stand naked in the corner of the room and wait.
2) When she enters she sits on a chair and I kneel before her and I am to look her in the eye
as she tells me what I am being punished for.
3) Then i kneel on the bed doggie style with legs spread wide. As i get on the bed I see what
instrument or instruments she intends to use. Last nite it was a brush and my blk leather belt.
4) Last nite 50 with the brush and then I am not sure how many with the belt.Usually she likes to
end with the belt. Then I assume kneeling position as she sits in chair belt in hand and I kiss it
and then thank her. Again she insists I try to explain why I did what had earned my spanking.
If she feels I somehow haven't learned anything, I return to stand in the corner naked. That
can last anywhere from half an hour to two hours. When released from corner I thank her
and we go to bed.
Hank
I haven't but I'm certainly up for it although I can't imagine any change or enhancement in the whole process as I am the one who always drives, so to speak.
Yorkie
Irene often ties me up and sometimes blindfolds me. She also changes clothes between foreplay and spanking and cunnilingus and intercourse frequently. So when I’m blindfolded I wonder what she’s wearing. Generally it’s very erotic. Oh, and usually the blind folds are fashioned from her panties - sometimes after exercising.
She has 4 or 5 implements- if I’m not blindfolded sometimes I’ll look so I know what to do expect. But it’s more fun just to wIt and feel.
- Rosco
Never tried blind folds and really interested. Like Simon we like to be able to see each other during and after spankings.
I don't like wearing blindfolds but my girlfriend does. I think it might be a male/female thing i.e. men prefer to see what's going on
We have used blindfolds during play. It definitely enhances things for both of us. There is nothing like losing one sense to heighten the other senses. It also heightens my sense of vulnerability. Rick in turn loves my heightened sense of vulnerability and becomes more dominant.
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Roz
Bacall likes to wear one from time-to-time so she does not know what's coming next.
My wife enjoys the look on my face seeing that dreaded hairbrush. I'm normally naked, she is sitting in her favorite 'spanking chair" no arms. She reminds me of why I'm getting a spanking, the hairbrush in full view. Knowing that is going to warm and sting my bare bottom is worse than the spanking.
I haven’t, but often I close my eyes and try and imagine what he is using next.
We have from time to time used a blindfold. Personally I don't like them.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Nope and nope.
Eric
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