What evidence is left behind after a spanking?
Bonnie: By this stage, I imagine no one wants to hear me say, "It depends." But
it does. The spankings I receive are seldom what I expect. So it is
with the skin damage. I can have marks from a spanking I didn't think
was that bad and just a nice red glow from another session I thought was
brutal.
If I have to describe "usual" marks, there probably
aren't any, just two reddish pink ovals on my sit spots. I am more
likely to see marks after Randy uses a solid hairbrush or bath brush.
The edges of these implements can leave dark red welts, especially when
used repeatedly and with emphasis. Wooden paddles also create
distinctive marks - sometimes a little bruisey-looking.
I like
the term rhino skin. I've had that, especially after getting the
paddle. I've had skin breaks, mostly from whippy implements, but we try
to avoid it.
I love a good afterburn where my bottom still feels hot and throbbing hours later, but that's not the norm.
Luvinhub: I've had two occassions worthy of posting about; all others I have been pink to red and tender for an hour or two.
The
first experience I had that was not the norm for us was early on in our
lifestyle. My wife used a hearty flip flop for an extended period.
While the coloring was not the red the effect on my butt was. My butt
burned/stung for hours; we had guest over for dinner shortly after the
spanking. I kept fidgeting in my seat looking to lessen the pain.
Sitting for the next day and half was tender.
The second time and
worse spanking I got was when I had really upset my wife. She used her
hand, a ping pong paddle, then my extremely heavy and braided leather
belt. I was very red and bruised. I struggled to sit that evening and
was tender for days. The bruising was not completely cleared for two
weeks.
Rosco: Well today’s an interesting day to ask this question. Irene has suddenly
developed a methodical, extended prevalence for the devastating
two-tailed strap with a round handle. It’s been a week since she used it
and my bottom is still sore indeed.
Sometimes I’ll cut a switch,
which often in our area is a shoot from a wild plum tree. These leave
welts, even small cuts - a delicious sting that lasted however only a
few hours. The welts are pretty much gone the next day.
The
serious impacts, however, have been hurting my back and neck from
getting carried away during these passionate shenanigans. Hopefully I’ve
learned.
KDPierre: Implements certainly matter and in all these years I have had my share
of welts, nubby blisters, bruises, cuts, and those characteristic
whitish dry spots in the center of the larger pink areas. But for me I
would say that because I have been doing this a long time and have been
mostly spanked with heavy paddles, I do get 'rhino butt' most
often.....which is like having your regular flesh turn into a kind of
swollen, leather, fake-feeling thick skin....which is also hot and red. (
by coincidence I'm actually sitting on such a butt right now as I type
this! LOL and ouch)
After a heavy spanking that is my most usual
degree of damage.....but the WORST I've ever experienced was one time
having the skin literally (and intentionally) spanked off my two cheeks
resulting in twin oval wet spots of abraded flesh about the size of an
egg. On this particular occasion I had to wear feminine napkins inside
tight underwear to keep from leaking clear fluid through my
pants....which happened on my drive home from the house of the person
who delivered this spanking. The pain was horrible and it took a couple
of days to finally scab over, and way longer for those two spots to
return to normal. After that experience she has been careful to avoid
that level of damage, but on occasion I still get abraded by my wife,
but at the first sign of it, she avoids that spot or stops and it scabs
over in a very short time without the extended period of leaking or
healing. But like I said, this is VERY rare and seems to occur only
after a very heavy paddling.
I have also had some minor
stippling of tiny dots of blood on occasion, but while one would think
blood was the worst, it's actually very minor compared to wet, abraded
patches.
Wendel: The Misses will paddle the hell out of my bottom right before she leaves
for a girl’s night out. This is so I remember to behave while she is
gone. I will be sore for hours and marks for a couple of days. Whippings
with the belt or strap leave me sore for a couple of days and marks for
about a week.
I have given the Misses a few paddlings that left
her sore for the day and bruises the next day. She will complain for
hours, even a day later after whippings. She will have strap marks on
her bottom for days.
Roz: It varies from pink cheeks that I may still feel the following day to
some, at times very dark bruising, marking and welts that could last for
a week. It depends on the nature of the spanking and implements used.
Rick is a fan of nipple play also so I also often have very sore nipples for a day or two post spanking.
Prefectdt: As I get spanked by different people, the end results depend very much
on the Top handing out the spanking. This I like, as variety is the
spice of life and Tops usually give a better spanking when they can
spank in the way that they like, with what they like. I can end up with
anything, from nicely pink all over that was gone in less than two
hours, to swollen and welted, where I can feel the welts with my
fingers, for up to 10 days after the event. I have never had a blister
from a spanking.
As for the second part of the question. That was
related to a change in medication for my blood condition. Just after
which I was hand spanked, strapped and caned by Femke Vandendijk, a very
challenging spanker. After that, I was black and blue for nearly 6
days, with good cane welts that outlasted the bruising. I am not sure
that I would describe this as one of the worst post-spanking experiences
but more of one of the most long-lasting and the best post-spanking
experiences, that I have had :)
Jack: My wife leaves no marks, but my skin is very red, stinging, warm to
touch, and walking is hard to do. I mouthed out to my mother-in-law, she arrived to see me in the
corner. Well I was soon over her lap, and it was as close as my bare
bottom has gotten to having marks. It was red for at least a week.
Jean Marie: As others have said, it depends. I will say that I feel disappointed if
there isn't sufficient bruising evidence on my bottom after a sound
punishment. I confess that I have intentionally bratted while OTK to
insure that there will be evidence for days left behind on my behind. I
think that I hate wooden implements so much is not solely because of
their infernal sting, but also due to the ashy gray skin their
application results in. I vividly remember complaining about this once,
and my lover rubbed skin lotion in, only to paddle me more right after
on moist buttocks, which REALLY hurt! I would be remiss if I did not
acknowledge that it was the elation I felt from the heavy bruising on my
butt that made me realize I was a confirmed spanko. I am happiest if it
hurts to sit. I do not wear thong-type bathing suit bottoms, preferring
bikini bottoms. And I'm proudest when a little corner of rounded,
brightly-bruised cheekiness peeks out for all to see.
Dan: My current average post-spanking state sounds a lot like KD's -- very
swollen, with ovals of grey-ish discoloration in the center. But, I
rarely bruise much; maybe a few egg-sized bruises now and then. In the
early days, I would get very, very bruised from a wooden paddle.
Regarding how long the effects last, for a really hard spanking,
sometimes it might last five days, but usually more like three or four.
Ironically,
the worst condition my butt has ever been in was after a fall on some
concrete stairs. It left a huge bruise across both cheeks that looked
identical to some of our early spankings, but the pain went much, much
deeper and lasted the better part of two weeks.
Barrel: Our usual remnants are deep pink, think skin with welts, usually from
the strap which is her favorite. Those effects are gone in a day or so.
The worst comes from two implements. First, her hairbrush. It is
heavy and made of oak. The back of the brush has 6 or 7 grooves that run
lengthwise along the back of the brush. When sternly applied, my skin
will bunch up into the grooves, resulting in long blood blisters. After
30 or 40 swats, my skin takes on a coarse striped look. The blood
blisters hurt for several days and will last for just over a week.
The
second and by far worst implement is the thin delrin cane. She rarely
wields it with full force, preferring to toy with accuracy and drive up
quantity. However, she has caned me once or twice at full force. Both
times have resulted in deep red welts. Often times such a severe
thrashing spills unintentionally over on to my right hip and thigh. I
have worn those welts for up to two weeks before they heal.
appleTom: My worst/best spanking was at a spanking-centric group that had meets at
a local, somewhat amateurish dungeon. The groups organizer, a women,
had put together a game for the night's opener. The object of the game
was to produce the reddest bottom from an otk hand spanking delivered to
an eight song playlist of oldies. As one of about 4 un-partnered male
bottoms in the group that was mostly M/F, I figured I would be watching
from the sidelines, however, a woman came up late who, mostly played on
the bottom side, but this night, wanted to try topping. We drew straws
for the "honor", and I won.
I had seen her once at a pre-event
munch and thought her very pretty with a lot of potential as she was a
large women with big biceps, but figured that she was a bottom as most
of the women in the group. I ending up missing the event as I needed to
hit an ATM and lost track of the group that I need to follow as this
was my first time and I didn't know where the dungeon was!
While
waiting for the game to start, she warned me that her friends told her
that she had a "heavy hand". For some reason, I just wasn't getting
what she was saying, even though I asked her to repeat it a couple of
times. I think my intelligence drops when I get into such a "deer in
the headlights" situation.
The game started and I found myself
getting quite a spanking. She further informed me and demonstrated that
she was completely ambidextrous! For the seventh song, the host handed
out wooden spoons! I was so into this that much of the pain was
offset. My only complaints where I wish she would have held me in
position more forcefully, and half masted my underwear rather than
gathered the back to bare my cheeks.
To pick the winner, the spankee's lined up and show their spanker's handiwork. My butt was judge the reddest.
A
glutton for punishment, I got her to give samples of her tool bags
implements. She had two sizes pig slappers, which I had always found
kind of weak, but not so in her hands. I also found it somewhat
humililating, that they were decorated with a nubile woman recipient, yet
here I was, a male getting beaten. Lastly, she got out a large holed
flexible paddle and gave me some swats. The endorphins were doing a
bang up job of keeping this all in a fun kind of state, but still being
greedy, I suggest we take it over to one of the spanking knelling
benches. That amped it up a bit, but then the guy paddling a woman the
next bench offered her the use of some of his wooden paddles, and with
those she was able to put me in some real pain.
Went home to find
some real bruises that went from brown to yellow-purple over the next
week, though I only felt sore for a few days. However, about a week
later, my urine turned purple and got me concerned enough to have a
embarrassing visit to my doctor.
Hermione: In the past, I have had a few bruises from wrapping, and on one occasion a blood blister. I've experienced rhino butt several times. Now that by bottom is quite used to attention, there's usually only some redness and tingling for a few hours.
A.J.: "What is the usual level of damage after a spanking? Pink skin, rhino
skin, swelling, blistering, welts, abrasion/wet spots, bruising, sore
for an hour or two, a day or two, a week or two? What was the worst
post-spanking butt-condition you've experienced?"
I have come to the conclusion I am the brunch wuss in these conversations.
My answers:
On the receiving end: Pink skin, sore for an hour or two, or eight.
On the giving end: Son-of-a-bitch!!! Pink skin, sore for an hour or two!
No rhino skin (I may have to look that one up), swelling, welts, or bruising.
I'm
a romantic/erotic spanker so it is always hand spanking (NB: There have
been exceptions!) When she gets off my lap her cute tush is a nice hot
pink. If off the lap and kneeling in front of me, she is
enthusiastically rubbing her bottom, smiling, with maybe giving out a "Whoooo!" With that part over, I...well you know; 'comfort' her. Hey! It's the law!
Really
laying into the cute tush that over my lap is just not my thing. At the
moment, I consider that tush MINE! My 'property.' I compare spanking
her hard with a paddle or strap akin to polishing my pristine BMW with a
ball-peen hammer.
A nice pink or almost red is fine and, maybe, if I do it right - I'll get asked to do it all over again!
"The worst post-spanking butt-condition I've experienced?"
OK.
On the receiving end. There have only been three. But the worst was a
to-die-for huggably cute brunette with slender well-turned legs that
went all the way to the top. And was a switch; so I got to spank her
kissable tush too! (And I did kiss it)
I had her otk, but the
majority of the time it was me otk. About 300 firm smacks before the
break and then me spanking her, followed by my getting her 'grande finale' of 200-300 more. When it was over she took a pic of my tush so I could get a good look at it! Ho-Lee.Shit. RED!!!
With exclamation marks red! I could really feel it, and this was
going to take some time to heal. (If she wasn't so damn cute...) The
sting-in-the-tail would still be there late into the next day. So would
the memory!
And, oh shit! I had a critical medical exam coming
up in 4-days! And could not re-schedule! Would it show? If he sees
and asks, what do I tell him????? (I had an answer ready, but the red
and pink were pretty much (I thought) gone by then. And he never asked.
Whew!)
Fun fact? That spanking was all from - her bare hand.
Ava: I often get the large whitish areas which usually do not last that long.
I also get red welts from the cane, and these can last a day or two.
Very occasionally there will be a small break in the skin from the cane.
I have had bruises that last a few days but that’s rare. My inner
spanko likes having marks, they are like my husband’s signature!
Ronnie: It definitely does depend on the type of spanking and implements used.
It varies from pink to very red which can last and I'll have a sting in the shower next morning to welts from the cane.
Ouch!
Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine