When has a spanking just not been enough?
Norse Cavalier: I was spanking a woman who enjoys being verbally teased and humiliated,
so she wants me to ask how wet she is getting and tell her she is a
dirty girl. At one point I said "You're enjoying this, you dirty girl,"
and she whipped her head around and replied, "You're enjoying it too,
you dirty BOY!" I don't tolerate back-talk, so I gave her two dozen
smacks with the wooden spoon, before continuing the hand-spanking.
A
day or two later, she sent me a message telling me that she didn't feel
she'd been sufficiently punished for her cheek. I offered to give her a
one-minute smacking with my clothes brush, hard and fast, followed by
five minutes in the corner, and she agreed. By the time she left the
corner, she was sufficiently meek and chastened, and never did it again.]
Roz: There have been occasions over the years where I have either felt a spanking didn't quite make the mark or the spanking has been more than I expected. My reaction depended on the situation, how strongly I felt etc. Sometimes I told Rick straight away and occasionally it resulted in a do-over but most often discussion.
Jack: That does not happen in this home, my wife/mommy insures the spanking brings the results she wants. My spankings are for being a naughty little boy and that is when my wife becomes my mommy and trust me mommy knows how to give a sound spanking and insures you remember it sometime afterwards.
KDPierre: We see spanking as a means to some end, though that goal can be very
different depending on a myriad of circumstances. However, because we
know who we are and what we are each looking for, we have a standing
agreement that either party can add to or amend a proscribed spanking so
that no one walks away from one feeling it wasn't enough. Sometimes
it's her telling me she isn't feeling resolved and so more is to come,
or at times I've confessed that I felt I got off too lightly for
something I still felt guilty over and Rosa would listen to my request
and reasons for it and nearly always give me a good bit of extra.
The
thing is, when I do make my case for more, she always takes me
seriously and makes sure the second round is quite intense. I go from
having felt 'it wasn't enough', to 'OK, now I feel like I paid an
appropriate price' and then, she just keeps going until I'm thinking,
'OK, this is more than I would have added. When is this add-on going to
end?'. This is good for me since it takes away any feeling that I am in
control. I may contribute input, but I'm not in control.
Preectdt: It was a long time ago, back in the 1990s, when I was living in The Netherlands. Playing with a fellow, amateur enthusiast, we had been going at it, on and off, for most of an afternoon, I think somewhere around 3 hours. I was well away with the fairies and wanted that play to go on forever. Then she stopped and refused to hurt me any more. I have to admit that I was not happy about this and got a bit pleading and whinny about things, until she made me stand and inspect the state of my backside in a full length mirror. It turns out that she had made the right call. And I still feel thankful for her responsible attitude.
Wendel: Over the years the Misses has made a few remarks about getting a weak
spankings. Usually I hear: “That is the best you can do?” Most times it
is followed by an immediate and harder spanking. Once in a while I will
make her sweat it out wondering if she will get another. It is fun to
watch the expression on her face as we pass in the house as she waits. I
did wake her up in the middle of the night a few times to administer a
“better” spanking. Again, it is fun to watch her struggle, half asleep.
After the first whack she does wake up.
We do not do verbal punishments. About the only thing is the occasional bad girl, bad boy comment but nothing more.
Graham: Sure, occasionally I come away feeling that it was too light. But it doesn't happen that often and doesn't rise to a significant problem. I've had a couple instances where I asked for more, and I can assure you that request was dealt with very seriously! :-)
Bonnie: Yes, that definitely happens. Two people can't always be on the same
page, even when we have decades of experience together. There are times
when I anticipate real punishment, but Randy delivers a more playful
spanking. I try to be patient and allow him to lead, but I need what I
need.
At that point, I tell him. Whether it's a polite request
like, "May I have more, sir?" or an insistent demand such as, "Are you
going to spank me or what?", Randy's response is exactly the same. He
stops the session and fetches a serious wooden implement, typically a
heavy paddle or a solid brush.
Before I even make such a request,
I know from experience what to expect. It's as if his manhood has been
challenged. He is determined to whack my bare bottom until it's very
red and very sore for a long time. He tells me that I am a naughty girl
and punishes me accordingly. I may scream and wiggle and whimper, but
these are moments I will later recall fondly, every time I sit down.
If
the miscommunication is the other way around, that is, my spanking is
harder than I expected, I typically tell myself I probably deserve it
for something and hang on. If my man wants to give, then I want to
accept. I stick out my bottom and trust him to do the rest. Spankings
are supposed to hurt.
Barrel: Yes, of course. When I have wanted more, I just remind myself that I got what she wanted to deliver and be grateful. Most often, she will ask how I am doing, giving me the opportunity to signal I want more or harder. But I am usually thankful for what she felt like she wanted to administer.
Hermione: It depends on which implement Ron is using. If it's the dogging bat or similar flexible leather paddle, I want it to go on forever. If it's the stingy shoehorn or lexan carpet beater, a little is too much.
Henry: For us, the intensity of the spanking we want this week may be different from what we wanted last week. We have no compunction about asking for more or less.
That's all, folks!
Slava Ukraini
Glory to Ukraine
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