Would you ever agree to engaging in spanking with someone other than your partner?
Roz: That's a great question. No, spanking is an intimate act and something
which enhances our relationship. Only one person gets to spank me lol.
Doug: I completely agree with Roz. I cannot imagine that anyone but my wife
would be willing to spank me. And I am sure that my lovely wife wouldn't
want anyone but her to spank me. Nor would I! It is simply a matter of
intimacy. Neither of us has ever committed adultery, and this would seem
to us like a form of adultery. At least close to it.
Fondles: Er, I don't think i could trust anyone else except the person I was involved with to spank me :)
Subone: I agree spanking is intimate. My daddy wouldn't let anyone else spank me.
Yorkie: Absolutely not. This is between my wife and I only.
Ronnie: It wouldn't feel right to have someone other than P spank me.
Rosco: I would love it in the right situation. Irene talks about it a lot, and plays many roles when she is spanking me. But either it’s only a fantasy or we don’t know the right people. I have the feeling that it could happen, but likely won’t.
Once
we were out to dinner with friends, and another woman told me she
wanted to spank me. I told her she would need Irene’s permission. This
woman has numerous “issues” and it would have been a bad idea.
I would really love the embarrassment of it, but wouldn’t want to do it unless Irene was sure she was ok with it.
Red: Great question: I have been spanked at a spanking play party by other
women, but some of that party was too severe for our liking. In
addition, both by Aunt Kay and Danielle. I would enjoy the experience,
if we knew enough about the other couple so that it would be safe, and
only as play, even if significant. Cindy has zero interest in spanking
anyone else except me. I would love to attend another play party, but that
appears unlikely in our future, because too far from home just for the
adventure.
Minelle: I do not want anyone else to spank me. I know my Scotsman would never go
for it either. It is too intimate. But whatever works for each
couple....
KDPierre: Been there, done that........and hope to continue with different people
in the future. A lot has to do with who it is and what the circumstances
are, but in the long run, life is too short for honoring conventions
for convention's sake. It's more about honoring feelings, whether pro or
con. (Though I lean towards 'pro' most of the time.)
Whenever
questions like this come up I am reminded of a survey done many years
ago where elderly people were asked about "regret" and almost
unanimously these folks said that they had less regret over things they
did that didn't work out (and therefore afforded them a life lesson)
versus the regret they felt over things they wished they'd done but
didn't.
Hermione: Sometimes this happens in dreams, when for soem reason or other I am being spanked by someone else—a friend or a stranger, it varies. But in real life, I can't imagine it ever happening. We are monogamous, and that includes spanking, which for us is an intimate, sexual activity.
Bogey: We are not jealous and nudity is not an issue for us. We have enjoyed
being spanked by others and spanking others many times with many
partners. It was fun. It never led to sex. We made some fast and true
friends.
Based on our experiences, we know they are more like us out there. So don't take the responses here as representative.
Anon: Yes, a couple of my wife's friends are older, they have this "Motherly
Look" and have dreamed of being spanked by them. Sorry it must be a
male thing, my wife understands and trust me once she is done spanking
me, I must call her "Mommy" for Mommy spanks naughty little children.
So if I could I would find a way for one of them if not both to take me
over their laps and spank me.
Eric: It started at Shadow Lane for us but there and at private parties I was
spanked by many other women, and I got to spank a few myself. I have no
regrets, it was a lot of fun. One-time Aunt Kay gave me a strapping,
ouch.
Once again we had a wide variety of responses, and that's great!