Sunday, June 1, 2014

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #22

 
Welcome to our weekly discussion. This week's question is for the recipients of that oh-so-special attention to the posterior.

Describe a situation where you really should have been spanked, really craved one, or really deserved one but it didn't happen. How did you feel?

Help yourself to snacks, leave your reply as a comment, and I will publish an edited summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.

From Hermione's Heart

15 comments:

Annapurna said...

That would be most every day, if I were to think about it. I have sass down to a science. Truthfully, though, the upside is I can sit much more comfortably. It makes writing that much easier.

Leigh Smith aka Sunny Girl said...

Cheated is the answer to all those questions.

Dan - A Disciplined Hubby said...

It happens fairly frequently. While my wife has good intentions, her follow through sometimes needs some work. It is fairly frequent that I do something stupid, like socializing a little too hard after work. Often, I not only know I deserve to be punished, but part of me knows I need it just for the boundaries and consequences it entails. When it doesn't happen, in the short-term I feel relief, but I know that in dodging the bullet I missed an opportunity to have some control imposed on me, and that control ultimately makes me feel better and more balanced. So, in avoid short-term pain I also sacrifice some long-term gain.

River Wild said...

Wow, this hadn't happened in quite some time. Ash is ever vigilant these days, and I always tell on myself if he isn't present to witness my naughtiness :-) I don't recall a specific time, but I know that if I need a spanking and don't get one, I feel off for sure. If I need one for stress relief and don't get one, a meltdown may occur. If I did something wrong, the guilt is likely to keep harping at me.

Anonymous said...

I can't remember when I deserved a spanking and didn't get one. There are times I crave a spanking and I give R one of our implements, she gets the hint and tells me what other implements she wants. There have been times when R just does not want to spank me and I'm left with an empty feeling, as being spanked makes me feel closer to her.
archedone

Simcor Devray said...

Well, I procrastinate my studies too often and I never got spanked for that, but I should really be spanked for that.

ronnie said...

Can't bring one particular naughty thing I did that I should have been spanked for.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Roz said...

Hmm, I can't bring one particular occasion to mind but frequently and usually it's usually my mouth running away on me!

Ni Na said...

Hi Hermione, I do crave spankings so much at the moment. But hubby wouldn’t do that until winter, when baby is there and no harm can be done. I dream of situations when I might get spanked, and this happens more often than ever. Now that I cannot have them, I learn how much I miss them.

Dee said...

Lol Sunny :)

Dee said...

I can't think of any offhand but know I've definitely been in all 3 situations :)

Dee x

Annapurna said...

Ni Na,

If there's a will, there's a way. Maybe it's time to brainstorm?

Ni Na said...

Annapurna, there will be no spankings for me till Christmas, but, concerning discipline, there are other things we do, and they work. But spanking? Nothing of that kind, just to make sure.

Respecting Mistress said...

There have been a couple of times recently when I've raised my voice (not shouted as such - but definitely got louder!) when taking a contrary view to Mistress.

Mistress can be a bit like like Dan - A disciplined Hubby' wife and not enforce some of the more pertinent issues. Both times I've mentioned something else has prevented immediate correction, and then the issues get forgotten.

For my part I feel that both of us would have benefitted if I'd been punished and I certainly bad that id' 'got away' with breaking one of our golden, but unwritten rules about talking back.

Katie said...

Hmm... The other day I undermined Rob in front of our 16 year old. I totally thought it was a very bad choice to make. Rob did too but we talked about it and with kids around, there was no chance for a spanking. Rob is more of an "in the moment" kind of guy- minus the shopping troubles of past. I think. So I am pretty sure that there will be no spanking. He did say something about building credits. He chuckled though. And I felt bad anyway so I learned a thing or two. :) So there you have it! :)