Spanking for Beginners

"Fancy a bit of slap and tickle? You need the naughty girl’s guide to spanking…"  The UK edition of Cosmopolitan has a comprehensive guide to introducing a little spanking action in the bedroom.

Topics include: how to ask your partner for a spanking: the use of safewords; role-playing and dressing up; implements and where to buy them; and positions. How to get started? "Your first spank should be more like a caress than a slap. After you've dispensed it, massage the area for a few seconds and fondle the genitals." Then we're on to more vigorous action. "All being well, consider increasing the strength of the spanks, aiming to deliver them a few seconds apart, and varying the intensity and frequency to heighten anticipation and arousal."

Because this is Cosmo, spanking is totally in the context of sexual activity, and the author cautions that spanking should be incorporated after other forms of foreplay, not in lieu of. "Don't even think about starting the session until you’re fully aroused," warns sex expert Tracey Cox.

For more information and to expand  one's spanking horizons, there's a section on resources including "courses, DVDs and books worth reading (as opposed to just being beaten on the bottom with!)"

Read the complete article here: "Spanking for Beginners"