Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Spanking for Beginners

"Fancy a bit of slap and tickle? You need the naughty girl’s guide to spanking…"  The UK edition of Cosmopolitan has a comprehensive guide to introducing a little spanking action in the bedroom.

Topics include: how to ask your partner for a spanking: the use of safewords; role-playing and dressing up; implements and where to buy them; and positions. How to get started? "Your first spank should be more like a caress than a slap. After you've dispensed it, massage the area for a few seconds and fondle the genitals." Then we're on to more vigorous action. "All being well, consider increasing the strength of the spanks, aiming to deliver them a few seconds apart, and varying the intensity and frequency to heighten anticipation and arousal."

Because this is Cosmo, spanking is totally in the context of sexual activity, and the author cautions that spanking should be incorporated after other forms of foreplay, not in lieu of. "Don't even think about starting the session until you’re fully aroused," warns sex expert Tracey Cox.

For more information and to expand  one's spanking horizons, there's a section on resources including "courses, DVDs and books worth reading (as opposed to just being beaten on the bottom with!)"

Read the complete article here: "Spanking for Beginners"

From Hermione's Heart


ronnie said...


Great minds. You beat me to it. This was going to be my post for Friday:)


Hermione said...

Ronnie - Oops! Sorry. I'm sure you have readers who don't come here, so do go ahead with it anyway.


Roz said...

Thanks for sharing Hermione ... and Ronnie :)

Interesting article. I've seen some of Tracey's books and we've had her TV show here. Quite entertaining.


Anonymous said...


Thank you. I would be curious about any letters they receive as a follow up to the article.


PS I was able to buy a bottle of the Red Ass wine and will bring it to my next spanking event.

Minielle Labraun said...

I am going to read the article after work today. Thanks Hermione!

maryanne said...

lol cannot wait to read this! What a hoot. Also, I need to know how to drop by handkerchief. lol!


Hermione said...

Roz - Really? She's new to me. I'll look for her show.

Joey - I'd like to see those letters too.
Good news about the wine. I hope it's delicious.

Minelle - Definitely NSFW!

Maryanne - A useful skill for ladies. BTW the picture did not originally go with the article. I put the two together.


sixofthebest said...

Hermione, these so called experts seem to know it all. My ASS?. Pardon the expression. Why don't they ask YOU, BONNIE, and ERICA, etc. For some REAL advice, on the ART OF SPANKINGS. Would'nt you agree on that?.

Terpsichore said...

very interesting article...thanks for sharing... :-) Hugs

Hermione said...

Six - The advice was pretty basic, intended for those people who haven't tried it yet. I agree, they should ask for input from those of us who are experts.

Terps - My pleasure.