Welcome back, everyone, for another delicious brunch, washed down with some amazing discussion.
This week's topic came to me as I was watching a not-so-good spanking video. I thought Ron could do a much better job than the person wielding the hairbrush, and I was sure I could have wiggled and protested much more convincingly than the subject of the implement's attention.
Depending on your point of view, what characteristics do you look for in a spanker or a spankee? How would you describe your ideal spanker or spankee?
Leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will post a summary of our conversation.
Please help yourself to a macaron while you consider your answer.
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Compatible interests.
For a spankee, I like a lady with a good sense of humor. One who can be a bit of a brat (without overdoing it). One who likes to earn her spankings, although not averse to a spanking "just because". And someone willing to show her reactions while being spanked. Honestly expressed verbal sounds, squirming, kicking (again, not to excess)add to my enjoyment and help me in the progression of the spanking. A lady who just lies there stoically is of no use to me whatsoever....
Hi Hermione, I think my ideal spanker makes me feel loved and cherished even during a spanking. When I am in trouble he has to be able to get us through the situation and afterwards both of us have to feel that the slate is clean again.
hugs
Nina
I like a little bit of protest when I spank her over my knee. If there is no wiggle I feel I am not spanking properly. For the spanker I prefer quiet. I don’t like talking or scolding during spankings. Don't need her telling me why I am getting paddled. The spanking should do all the talking.
Hi,
Sorry to crash into your lovely blog like this but I thought I’d introduce myself. I’m Elizabeth Forster the author of Educating Elizabeth, an erotic novel about a young virgin whose sexuality is awoken by being spanked by her gorgeous tutor. It’s been out of print for some time but the publishers recently approached my as they want to re publish it. Subject to a thorough edit and revision I agreed, and it will be available at the end of this year.
Pending its release I have started a blog, Ivory Tower, where I record my thoughts on life and love, sex and sensuality, and of course the pleasures of being spanked. You can find it at elizabethforster.blogspot.com
Do visit me from time to time and of course leave your own thoughts for me to consider. If you want to mention me on your blog or elsewhere I would be thrilled as I’m keen to get the word out.
Thanks for listening
Liz
I have had my ideal spankee for some time - S . Her gorgeous bottom just begs for a spanking, and when it gets one, which is often, she squeals and wriggles realistically until my palm has changed her cheeks to a glowing red, when her yells become genuine. She knows that sometimes I like being more severe, and allthough she protests, she submits her bottom to a paddling or caning, knowing that I know her limits, and she will not be left in a 'no sit' state for days to come ! She also knows that the harder her spanking, the better the sex afterwards. D.
D spanks skillfully and considerately . His hand spankings leave my rear smarting and sexy. The implements can get rather painful , but I can yell and squirm, knowing he will not over do it, and the sex will be even better, and the marks and stripes will not last too long. S.
When the knickers down lady, feels the pain of 'six of the best' with a cane on her bare bottom, I am sexually and erotically satisfied. And she likewise.
Good dialog to accompany the spanking is important to me - it helps to make it seem real.
I enjoy it most when the spankee is an "active participant". If the girl being spanked is verbal, protests, kicks and squirms that makes for a more interesting experience. I also like to scold during the spanking so there is an interaction going on.
When there is little or no reaction from the spankee, it makes for a sterile ilke experience.
As I having only 1 spanker, my Mistress Wife, my field of view is limited to her. The characteristics she displays are a firm hand when delivering a punishment spanking, and genuine desire to have me naked before her, bottom presented for a spanking. Sometimes she will spank simply because she wants to at any given moment. Because she enjoys it. I am honored to be the one she wants to spank at a moments notice.
P's my idea spanker. Good humour, spanks skillfully, look after me with care, lectures during a spanking (which I do enjoy, depending on the spanking:))
Love,
Ronnie
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