Do you keep a spanking-related diary? Is it the main means of communication between you and the person who spanks you? Is it a requirement in your spanking relationship or is it a secret?
Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish an edited summary of our discussion on Monday.
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We do not, although I like the idea. It is a nice way to keep track of the frequency and intensity of my spankings.
When we were practicing DD we did keep a diary of both infractions and things that had gone well to ensure these were acknowledged as we were often unable to deal with any issues at the time. Any consequences for actions, such as spankings were also recorded.
Hugs
Roz
No, but I have written LOTS of letters to my wife recounting my feelings and viewpoint, as the spankee, on lots of my spankings. She loves them.
Yorkie
We don't keep a diary but we did keep a list of misdemeanours for a time.
I keep a secret diary on line but I don't think it will see the light of day.
Hi Hermione, :) I don't keep a spanking diary, but I look at my blog as a nice record of some of the more notable spankings that have come my way. Many hugs,
❤️Katie xoxo
Showed this to my wife, her response, don't need to, I remember past spankings, we women do not forget. If I repeat something that I should not she remembers the last time, if it was a short time ago, the spanking is long, but if it was awhile back the spanking does get my attention but not as long. Jack
No diary, but sometimes I’m required to write a confession or apology prior to a spanking.
I’ve also been required to deliver lists os synonyms for my behavior - obstreperous, bratty, pouty, disobedient, etc.
I’ve been told I’ll be getting my bottom thrashed in a few hours, without any rewards for a few days.
Rosco
No diary. Once a spanking is over we move on to the next.
No diary, but I do write down ideas and events with details so that I can remember them when I write a blog entry! Hugs, Windy
I communicate with my spanker through the diary. I leave it for him whenever I write something in it. It can contain anything from the things I think he'd like to know about my behavior, needs and evaluations from the latest session.
They often give him incite into the intensity and duration of a particular session; whether it was long enough, or too short, what I was feeling before,during and after a session; and whether I would love to feel that way again.
I've also written my fantasies I've had that result in a spanking or paddling and the setting for such.
Games we could play together with things that could be used (Like dice) to determine the extent of my guilt and punishment while we roll-play. or to draw a card to determine the implement to be used for a session.
My spanker says he prefers this to coming up with what to do for a play session. He likes the discipline be up to chance instead of trying to decide what I'm to submit to enduring.
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