Monday, March 30, 2020

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for March 29

Have you ever given or taken an intentional one-sided spanking? Yesterday, our good friend Devlin O'Neill published a post that illustrates this perfectly. What a coincidence!

Alan: Not had that exact experience, but my first disciplinarian discovered the power of delivering multiple strokes to one cheek and then the other until my whole bum was a flaming mess. I was shocked the first time she did it because it overwhelmed my defenses and resolution "to take my punishment like a man" There is no chance to recover when alternate checks are repeatedly spanked and I went from enduring it to losing it. We both really wanted that, so it was all good. But when she let me up I knew I had been well and truly spanked by someone who now meant business. It was surely the most severe spanking I had received till that time and considering the psychological shock of it one of the most severe I have ever received. It made a lasting impression.

morningstar: Yes I did ...... and I didn't like it one little bit. I realized how alternating cheeks gives me time to process the pain (for lack of a better explanation).

Bonnie: Not an entire spanking, but enough to know that I really dislike that unbalanced feeling.

Roz: As the others said, balance is best. I don't think I have had an entire one-sided spanking, but certainly all attention paid to one cheek then the other on occasion.

Graham: Yuk! Wouldn't want to give or receive. To each his/her own.

Prefectdt: No I have never intentionally been spanked in this way nor do I ever want to be. I would "Safe Word" this kind of thing during pre spanking negotiations or chat. I thoroughly hate being "Lop Spanked". It brings me out in quotation marks :)

Jack: My wife wants to insure I have trouble sitting, so both cheeks are equally spanked.

Barrel: We have not. We do have spanking game we haven’t played yet called “Count To Ten”, where each cheek gets first one, then two, then three and so on up to ten. From the discussion at the table, I don’t think I want to play it. And it seems to me that surface area matters. The more surface area covered, the more satisfaction?

Rosco: The last thing Irene would do would be to think about details like this. But yesterday, we escaped to a nearby private cabin so she brought only her leather ping pong paddle and no other “toys”. She started fast and hard, and gave multiple whacks to one cheek before switching to the other. 5 seconds reprieve can help a cheek prepare for the next swat but was not to be had.

Generally she’s much more egalitarian in her approach to spanking - one then the other.

In days gone by, with switches especially, Irene would fail to realize that some strokes were wrapping around and getting my hip bone. I would interrupt if necessary but it lessened my mood to do so. After she would see the bruising and eventually she learned to keep the end of any whip closer to the middle of the far cheek.

Ronnie: Never had an entire spanking of one cheek and happy it hasn't happened.

Pete: I have many times had a one butt session. HATE IT !!!!!!! Am told it is the best reminder that this is discipline and not a game!

Wendel: It would be a half-assed job. Someone had to say it.

A.J. "Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm...." - Thomas Merton.

(N.B.: I'm only a fun spanker/spankee, with no interest in delivering - or getting - a "REAL!" spanking. I just think and do it because it's fun.)

It was my question, and the background was a short video clip of a woman spanking some guy OTK. And she was pretty damn good! With just her hand. (But if that hand had held a hairbrush or paddle...(Shudders....) I noticed something while watching, and then re-ran that clip a couple more times and took count. Over about 110-seconds - 93 firm spanks, 78 of them delivered to the poor guy's northern hemisphere!

I had a small laugh at that because I have been in that guy's position where my GF had concentrated so often on my northern hemisphere to the point I had to look back and remind her, "Hey! I have two cheeks!" Because it really hurt! Whereupon she would smile sweetly, apologize, promised to make up for her error, and proceeded to do so. And as the spanker, I admit have been guilty of that carelessness, too. Besides, pink is a nice color and it should be spread around, amiright?

I assumed that one-cheek-samba in the clip was, like my experiences - unintentional. From the reader responses it looks like my assumption has been wrong. Ouch!!!

QBuzz: A 'one-cheek samba' is my girlfriend's preferred technique, she spanks one cheek many times and then the other many times, and so on. It is certainly effective and it always evens out in the long run...
I have commented on it in the past but she has no intention of changing so I just have to be a good boy and accept it :D

Hermione: Ron is usually good about giving both cheeks equal treatment. The only time he intentionally punishes one side more than the other is when he uses the flogger. The right cheek is the only one that feels the effect.

"Let's be careful out there." - Sergeant Phil Esterhaus, Hill Street Precinct.
From Hermione's Heart

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