Welcome to our weekly get-together. You may remove your mask to take a sip of the mimosas I've prepared. Today's question is for the tops, but don't worry if you are a bottom. You'll have your turn next week.
How vocal is the spanker in your relationship? Does he or she deliver a lecture before or during a spanking? Does he or she make comments during a spanking? Or does the one wielding the paddle remain silent?
Please leave your response as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to respond, I will publish an edited summary of our conversation.
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Back in the day when we had an active dynamic Rick would lecture before and during a spanking, depending on the reason for the spanking. If the spanking was not for discipline the dialogue would be more reminders of our dynamic and expectations.
Now that any spanking is purely for fun his dialogue is more light and fun. Comments on how he enjoys spanking me, that I'm his etc.
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Roz
It varies by her mood, sometimes T is very vocal about whatever happens to be on her mind and other times very quiet at which time the spanks are a little slower but firmer and may last longer YAY. When talkative and I am in the right position of exposure some mild ball paddling may be involved.
I do not say much when I spank the Misses. The smacks on her bottom say it all. The Misses paddles me before she leaves for a girls night out. She lectures how I need to behave while she is gone and that the spanking will remind me to do so all evening.
Usually it's just an announcement of how many strokes I'm about to receive. The punishment itself is normally given in silence apart from the occasional grunt of effort, my groans and the sound of whichever implement she has chosen swishing and impacting. Sometimes though if she is very pleased with her efforts she may say something like "that's a good one". Afterwards she may compliment me on how well I took it.
My wife is vocal, very stern, scolding vary in length. She had enough of my attitude, behavior, loved me, and was given a choice prior our marriage, her punishment or I could leave, I stayed. I'm always spanked on the bare bottom, she will either have me undress in the bedroom and wait or will pull down my pants, underpants, scolding me the whole time, and over her lap no matter where. She scolds while spanking, starts with the hand, then with the bath brush. I kick off my pants and underpants most times, face the wall. Been spanked with others present. Worse of all is that I will call her Mommy, until told otherwise. Mommy spanks naughty little boys and if I don't want another spanking I call her Mommy. No set number of spanks, if I say a naughty word, soap time will be next. Jack
Once I'm called into the room , she does all the talking and is always well prepared.
She will ask me questions but usually the answer will require only a "YES Ma'am!" or a "NO Ma'am!".
She scold as she spanks and gives me updates on how red my bottom is (as if I didn't know).
Afterwards she Wil tease me about the spanking and my reluctance to sit.
Irene never fails to lecture me, although she often adopts another persona. She has been a sorority girl, a senorita, a southern belle, a classmate, a teacher etc. Most recently, she’s Mrs. Robinson and I’m the boy delivering groceries.
Generally there’s some imaginary offense such as peeking through the keyhole into the girls locker room or rummaging through her lingerie. Never anything real (not good for the marriage we’ve agreed)
Sometimes I’ll make lame excuses until she orders me to be quiet and gags me.
Rosco
Lecture before. Then just me howling.
It varies a lot depending on the situation and our moods. It can range from playful banter, serious lecture before and/or during, counting, etc. I react to verbal stimulation, so I like it when she's more vocal. Graham
As many have shared, it depends on the reason, level and hype during the foreplay. On most spankings, she only comments about the color that she has not yet attained, so on we go. However if we are in a serious punishment session, where she wants to correct me for something I have done, she will give me a stern lecture between sets and then lay on the instrument as hard as she desires.
I have experience words from tops in many different styles of delivery but the ones that make my spine shiver are the quiet and calm instructors who mostly get close up and whisper their commands to you.
Prefectdt
My husband likes to change up our spankings to keep things interesting and to avoid getting into a rut. His vocalizations are part of this strategy. Sometimes, he will strive to create a specific headspace. Other times, he will remain mostly silent and make me wonder what is next. From my position, it's all good.
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