Welcome to our socially-distanced brunch. You don't need a mask to enjoy good food and good conversation here. Today I have a fun topic that I found on Bonnie's blog. It might make you stop and think before answering.
Which ends up hurting more: the spanker's hand or the spankee's bottom?
As always, you may remain anonymous when you reply, either by leaving a comment or by sending me an email. Once everyone has responded, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
Our good friend Red has returned with a new blog. Please stop by and give him a warm welcome.
It's great to have you back, my friend.
I've always loved reading the comics in newspapers. Even before I learned to read, I would pore over the weekly colour comic section of the newspaper, looking for pictures of spanking. Back in those days, storylines featuring spanking as the final panel were quite common.
I still enjoy comic illustrations, and have found a selection of butt-related cartoons for you to enjoy, from a desk calendar I had a few years ago.
What traits make a good spanker?
Roz: That's a great question. I think a good spanker knows their spankee well, there likes and dislikes etc and is able to read signals from the spankee such as body language and verbal queues.
Rich Person: Empathy. I think a good spanker can feel what the spankee is feeling during the spanking session, and use that to give them the proper experience.
Anon 1: To be a good spanker you need to have been on the receiving end as a spankee. It gives you much more insight into the spankees thoughts, emotions and feelings...posterior and otherwise.
Wendel: Anyone can give a spanking. Just bare the bottom and smack until the person cannot sit. To be a good spanker in a relationship you must know your partner emotionally. You need to understand their feelings and convey your love to them even though you are giving them a sore bottom. When it is over the spankee is left with a wonderful experience.
Barrel: Agree with all the comments currently posted. I would add technique, which includes location and delivery. I was spanked yesterday and an errant stroke landed high on my tailbone, which ruined the moment. While wrapping of an implement is very effective when delivered correctly, strokes that wrap to the sides of the hips are nasty. My wife has practised caning a pillow to enhance the delivery of very hard strokes accurately.
Prefectdt: Beyond the obvious, respects hard limits, safe words etc, I think that what makes a good spanker is someone who can develop her own style. I have had many notable spankings that have been totally different from each other. There are no one set of traits that make a good spanker. She just has to find a way to spank well, within her own abilities and character.
Rosco: Someone who enjoys it, either innately or learns to like it because their partner does.
For me, the lecture and role play are important.
A sense of the desired intensity and duration, with few errant strokes.
Hermione: For me, it's a man who is enthusiastic and enjoys the job.
KDPierre: There are numerous things but in my experience the best spankers are the ones who really want to do it--like not just as an experiment, or to be cute, or to be accommodating--but a personal desire of their own. Something IN themselves. These folks tend to then pick up all of the individual traits already mentioned very quickly.
Anon 2: My wife gives me a very good spanking twice a week. She is the best spanker, in my estimation, since she is the only person who has ever spanked me as an adult. She spanks me exclusively. And I would not want anyone else to do it.
Great insight into the question. Stay safe, everyone!
Welcome one and all to our weekly spanko discussion. This week's topic comes to us courtesy of Bonnie and a long-ago brunch. I thought we deserved another opportunity to discuss it since many of you here today didn't have the pleasure of attending that brunch.
What traits make a good spanker?
Please leave your response as a comment or email me. Once everyone has had a chance to weigh in, I will publish an edited summary of our discussion.
KDpierre: "Don't blame ME for not feeling anything through this damned bustle, blame your own Victorian prudery for not stripping me naked first!"
Jack: I should have picked up the fireplace shovel, it would have gotten her attention and wiped the smile from her face.
A.J.: "Why isn't she complaining..."?
He doesn't understand why she's loving it?
Jeanie: "No, darling, I don't feel a thing. I think your regular hairbrush paddlings of my bottom have developed calluses back there. May I suggest we try it in the nude with a school cane...?"
Rosco: Something is wrong, very wrong.
She's lying the wrong direction
for a right-handed spanker. The artist was too lazy to start over, but
willing to add the question mark.
Baxter: Dear, I cannot feel the hairbrush at all. Maybe you should lift my dress and try that. OR we could switch places and I can see if you can feel the hairbrush. Either way is fine with me.
Prefectdt: C'mon dear, put some effort into it, you need the exercise.
Eric: "Is that all you've got?"
Lurker48: I agree with KdPierre!
Wendel: Lawrence suddenly realized why a spanking should be given on the bare bottom.
Roz: Why is she still nagging? Obviously time to get serious with this spanking.
Rich Person: "Why am I doing this when I have no clue how it works?"
Ronnie: I know dear, now you have to pull up my skirt and spank me.
Barrel: Hmmm...enough warm up? Yep! Time for the cane, my love.
Hermione:
Man: What the heck is making that squeaking noise every time I whack her posterior?
Woman: Little does he know I hid my dog's favourite squeaky pillow under my skirt.
Here we have a husband administering a well-deserved spanking to his wife. But why the question mark? What is the mystery in this cartoon, sent to me my our good friend Wendel Jones?
Please create a suitable caption in the comments section below, or email me. I'll publish your submissions on Friday.
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