Sunday, February 23, 2014

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #8

I welcome you to another friendly weekend brunch.  We all know that spanking benefits our personal relationships in many ways. But do spankings have any other positive impact in our lives? Bonnie first raised this question at a brunch in 2006 and I thought it was worth re-examining.

Do you or your partner experience benefits from your spanking activities that extend beyond your relationship and into other aspects of your lives? If so, please describe how this has helped you.

Please leave your response as a comment, and I will publish an edited summary of our discussion once everyone has had an opportunity to speak.

From Hermione's Heart


sixofthebest said...

When I have spanked a lady on her bare bottom. I find I have a most positive feeling that particular day. And according to the mood of the lady, her feelings are likewise.

Dragon's Rose said...

I am more self confident and have a better overall body image. I still dress modesty but I don't mind showing off my curves in the appropriate setting.

Dragon is more relaxed. The harder we play, the better he copes with the stress at work and home.

Unknown said...

I definitely find benefits from a spanking that extend to other parts of my life. Since most of my spankings are at night, I wake up feeling really centered and focused. I am able to accomplish a great number of projects with less effort and have an improved feeling of confidence. They are also beneficial when I am particularly stressed and seem to bring me back to the the mindset my HoH prefers me to be in.

Dan - A Disciplined Hubby said...

Hi Hermione. Thanks again for the blog tips! Since our relationship is DD focused, the whole point for us is changing my behavior in positive ways, and some of that spills over to areas outside our relationship. As I talked about a little in my most recent post, I have control issues and can be very Type A, and spankings are part of the process of trying to help me give up some of the control by putting the control in someone another person's hands. While it's really hard at the time, giving in like that helps keep more calm and centered. It's kind of like raising kids -- while they think they need freedom, what they often really need to feel secure are boundaries. One more practical benefit is that I am a chronic insomniac, and something about a hard spanking helps me sleep much, much better.

Anonymous said...

I am more relaxed and happy after a spanking. My mood improves and I feel good. Also, this feeling lasts longer if I feel the soreness or see marks on my bottom

Anonymous said...

Good question...Besides correcting some errors, spanking can and quite often leads to some wonderful sex. It also shows me she loves me enough to correct me by applying implements to my bottom, and it makes me feel better about myself.

Roz said...

Great question! I find I feel more relaxed, confident and centered after a spanking. I feel less stressed and in a good mood.

Anonymous said...

My frequent and lengthy spankings have a very good effect on the tone of the muscles in my Gluteus Maximus; much better than an expensive trip to a masseuse . I am sure that spanking keeps my bottom
pert and firm, jiggling and wiggling for the benefit of any males who might be following me ! S.

ronnie said...

For me, I'm more relaxed, less stressed and certainly leaves me in a happy mood. Spanking has also made me more confident.



There are lots of things for me so I will only comment about one of them for this Brunch.

When I have a big decision to make, I am talking about major life changing type of decision, I find that getting a really harsh thrashing clears my mind for a few days and helps me to see the best choice to make.


Baxter said...

I agree with what has already been said. A good spanking can change one's outlook and reduce stress. a sore bottom when sitting at work can be an enjoyable distraction and think of other things. yes, there are good things that come from a spanking.

Enzo said...

From the spankers point of view:
I find great solace in spanking a young lady. It is my outlet. I feel less stressed, happier and overall happier after delivering a good spanking.

River Wild said...

I find that it help me regulate my emotions. I get to "cry it out" once in a while with a hard spanking and then I don't get so upset the rest of the time. For my husband, he gets a healthy outlet for his quarrels with me :)