Sunday, February 21, 2016

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #113

Hello, everyone! I'm glad you are able to join us for brunch today. Today I have a question for you that came to mind earlier this week, after I had spent a good part of the morning visiting spanking blogs that featured domestic discipline as the main reason for spanking.

In your relationship, are there rules which if not followed result in a spanking? Who sets them? Are the rules negotiable?

Leave your reply as a comment, and once everyone has had a chance to answer, I will publish a summary of our conversation.

From Hermione's Heart


Ella said...

Good question, Hermione. Yes, there are a few serious rules that would result in a spanking. Things like safe and patient driving and letting Sam know when I get off work and where I am going. We also have a rule on sensible eating and maintaining a healthy weight. These rules were definitely agreed upon by both of us.

There can also be spankings for losing my temper, moodiness and snarky comments, as well as pulling away. These are decided only by Sam. I can protest, but it really doesn't change anything. These can be epic spankings depending on how Sam sees things.

Finally, there are several silly rules that can give Sam a chance to spank if he is in that kind of mood. This would be things like being sure his coffee is ready when he gets up. These are usually just fun.

Hugs From Ella

Minielle Labraun said...

This is a good question! We don't really do rules. I know what will upset my guy. Mostly a certain type of spanking is related to my snarky attitude. Otherwise we have fun!

Jenn said...

we do a little of this. Can't write more tonight. Long weekend and I'm tired.

Aimless Rambling said...

No rules here, they'd only be broken anyway. It's fun fun fun until someone gets spanked.

ronnie said...

Don't really do rules here. Swearing, snarky remarks and rudeness gets me spanked.


Anonymous said...

No rules yet, but we plan to set them. I think it will help because right now he doesn't spank me often enough. Mainly because he is still unsure of is authority over me, how often and why to spank.

Anonymous said...

We mohave two or three basic rules. There is no discussion only acceptance from him.