Sunday, July 2, 2017

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #183

Welcome, dear friends, to a belated spanko brunch. Have a typical Canadian snack with us and join in the conversation. Many of us have known each other for years and are comfortable with our spanking activities. But there are probably some readers who are new to it all.

What advice would you give to someone who wants to get into spanking with his or her partner, or who is just starting out? 

Leave your reply as a comment and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to respond.
From Hermione's Heart


Roz said...

My advice would be communicate with your partner then communicate some more. It's important to discover each others likes, dislikes, no-go areas etc and to determine the direction you both want your relationship to go in future.


Anonymous said...

What Roz said.

And maybe be open to the thought you won't like it...? Ease into it. Apply Roz's comments after. Try it several times.

For her: That you can always say "no". Or, "Harder!"
For him: It's not a contest. You're not in this position to have to prove anything.

For both, take your time and not rush anything or have too high demands/expectations.

Don't make it the point about which your world turns?

Make sure there are lots of smiles....!


ronnie said...

Just starting out - communication to determine how you both want TTWD to work for you. How far you want to take it. As AJ says, take your time, talk, try it. No pressure.

If you would like to get into spanking maybe find some blogs that you like and pass the link/s on to your partner for them to read and then talk to see what they think.