Think back to your very first adult spanking. How did it come about? Was it what you had expected? Was it satisfying or disappointing? How long was it before you repeated the experience?
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I can't quite remember how the conversation happened now, but we talked about spanking early in our relationship and it was a surprising easy and fun conversation.
Spankings started for us in the realm of play. If I recall, I don't think there was too much to the first one, but being the first it was exciting and the intensity increased with subsequent spankings.
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Roz
Like Roz's story ,we started out with play one day. Somehow a ping pong paddle ended up in our bedroom. hehe And one of us (me), might have asked him to use it during sex. Very light, but so exciting for the first time. The very first "planned" spanking was very much talked about ahead of time, hurt when it happened, and then led to other intimate activities.
The first adult spanking was while dating an older woman, lived in the same apartment complex. I lived in the unit above her’s and we would say hi, small talk and then it become more than small talk. We soon would be going out to dinner, she would joke with the waiters that I was her nephew, solved a lot of problems. Being young and wanting to have fun I started doing “stupid” things and she was for it, to a point. We decided to go to the coast, her boss had a place we could stay and off we went. It was the third day, I slept in, we have been having sex, and when I walked into the kitchen she had a stern look on her face. The previous night out to dinner I got a little carried away, and so I stood there trying to explain. Childish behavior she said standing up, will not tolerate that young man, soon she had a grip on my arm and I was taken back to the bedroom, No way I said, realizing what she was going to do, and before I could say anymore she sat on the bed had me across her lap and my bottom she bared. Her hand really stung, but the hairbrush got my attention. When she stood me up, going to improve, yes I said rubbing a very sore spanked bottom. Thinking it was over, she stood up, told me off with the pj’s and best get to the kitchen. I faced the wall, she said nothing. I was spanked a few times more, did not matter where we were.
My first adult spanking was at the hands of my then fiancé, now my wife, and it was a play spanking where we spanked each other. I loved it of course but she wasn’t enamoured by it at all but was far more open to it then than she is now ironically.
I much prefer our arrangement these days...
Last night’s was absolutely devine.
Yorkie
Shortly after we met the Misses and I started a discussion about the spankings we used to get from our parents. Figured we were both interested after that so the first opportune moment I took her across my lap and gave her a good spanking. She enjoyed it so several more follow. On one of her girl’s night out evenings she stepped out of the shower and called me into the bedroom. She placed a chair out in the open and pulled a rather firm looking paddle out of the closet. She told me that I would be getting a severe spanking to ensure I behaved while she was gone. She sat down naked and pulled me across her lap. Then I got the first few whacks. The sting was wonderful. The paddling went on for a bit, not sure how many whacks but when it was over every inch of my bottom was sore. It was rather uncomfortable all night but I had a smile on my face. A few days later I was over her lap again getting another paddling.
I convinced a high school boyfriend to spank me, but let's decide that doesn't count. My first college spanking was with Randy. I've told this story before, but the short version is that we were playing in bed and decided to try a spanking. Needless to say, it was a resounding success. We pretty much never looked back.
It took a few tries to get it right. Irene was never reluctant to spank me, but she didn't understand for a while that I craved an extended and intense experience, and that a bit of lecture added to the whole thing.
She did give me a memorable paddling with a hairbrush on our honeymoon. We were staying in cabin in the mountains - it was winter and we were cross country skiing. There were several other cabins not far away.
We were about to go to the cafeteria for dinner when she told me it was time for a spanking. She told me to take off my pants and went after my bottom with the hairbrush. Boy, did it ever hurt, but not so much I wanted her to stop. It just got hotter and hotter. When she finally stopped she ordered me to stand in the corner with my hands on my head. While I was standing there, all I could think was how lucky I was that I had married a great woman, but that she was unafraid to indulge in my sexual proclivities. We had a wonderful "roll in the hay" (as we sometimes call it) after dinner.
That was in 1982. Since that time, she has come to enjoy spanking me as much as I enjoy getting it - maybe more.
And we kicked things up a few notches after the kids went off to college 10 years ago. The spanking etc. and sex is better than ever.
I was barely an adult, 18 and living with my 2 year old boyfriend. He came home from work and found me on the porch smoking a cigarette. I hid it behind my back and he could see the smoke rising up behind me. He asked about it and I lied. Next thing I knew, he had me over his shoulder, spanking me the entire time he was carrying me in the house. That was my first spanking ever and it resonated deeply within me. I wanted MORE.
Amy
HAHA. Not "2 year old boyfriend". 22 Year old boyfriend.
Amy
We were on holiday and I read some throwaway paperback with spanking in it. I showed P the extract and he said it seemed to have done her some good. I think that was probably the first time P ever mentioned it, the actual determined act of spanking, and told him I agreed. Then later the same day he spanked me, we'd been out to some barbecue place where there was dancing and free flowing wine. Anyway to cut it short when we got back to our chalet I got spanked, it was fairly hard (or so I thought at the time) but exciting and led to other intimate activities.
Love,
Ronnie
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First adult spanking was not what I was wanting at all. Dating a wonderful woman, been seeing one another for over a year. One Saturday morning she want to discuss some of my bad habits she had mentioned several times and since we were about to be married, was laying down the ground rules. I was still in my pajamas, she was already dressed and told me that my actions were that of a little boy, a naughty one. So she said I will address the problem as I would with a naughty little boy and she pulled the bottoms of my pj's down and I popped out. Typical male she said with a smile, and took hold of it. She stroked it slow and then fast and taken the kitchen towel I soon cum and she cleaned me off. Now we will address the problem and over her lap I went and boy did she spank me hard, I was soon pleading, I danced around the room rubbing, and looking at her. Young man she said sternly, you best get to facing that wall and I will address that look later. Married, been spanked, always erect, but now I must masturbate prior to the spanking. Will never understand my wife, erections and spankings do not mix and never knew a woman could spank so hard.
I know I am late to the party...just catching up reading in the land...my first adult spanking was by my husband's hand, playful, and intimate, and gentle, and loving...and I longed for more...and still do...
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