Sunday, June 10, 2018

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #231

I'm delighted that you could come to brunch today. Grab a slice of cake and let's get started. Last week Ronnie wrote about her fears of possibly being "outed" when an acquaintance found some spanking sites. I know that some of my readers are very open about their fondness for spanking, while others have told very few about their preference. What about you?

Have you ever come close to being outed, or have you ever feared that someone might find your blog and connect it to you? Did anything actually come of it? How did you handle the situation? If this hasn't happened to you, how do you think you might react if it did?

Leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our conversation once everyone has had a chance to speak.
From Hermione's Heart


Roz said...

Hi Hermione,

We have had a couple of occasions where there has been a knock at the door during a spanking session, or just before we were about to get started. I did wonder what they may have heard. The fear of someone finding my blog and joining the dots has always been in the back of my mind.


Simon said...

I don't have a blog but I do have a Twitter account on which I post pictures and short bits about my spanking adventures. I'm very careful that the pictures don't make me easily identified but I have appeared on some other peoples sites and been very identifiable. Initially I was very worried about this but now I don't worry too much about it for a couple of reasons.
1. I've retired so I don't have to worry about losing my job.
2. The people I worried most about finding out, my parents, have sadly both passed away.
3. I realised that whilst we may think our Blogs, Twitter and other social media are read by thousands in truth only the really popular ones have more than a handful of readers and those readers will almost invariably have similar interests and therefore will be sympathetic to our activities.

WendelJones said...

I do not have a blog. If I did and someone figured it out I would not be too concerned. In order to connect the dots that person would have to be searching and reading spanking blogs making them just as kinky as me.

Anonymous said...

Joe, no blog, a desire I have had. I was outed by a woman I was seeing. She found the magazines and a couple of videos and corner me when I stepped out of the shower. She looked at me, said don’t be ashamed, known others who enjoy this. Told to put a towel on we went to the front room and she put in a DVD and it was a wife spanking her husband, calling him a naughty little boy and as she spanked him said that she will be the Mommy when he has been naughty. My girlfriend turned it off and looked at me. Off with the towel my naughty little boy she said with a smile, oh and you will call me Mommy. She had me across her lap, the spanking really hurt, her hand was very hard, and when she finished I danced around the room. Did you like that she asked, Yes Mommy, well then Mommy will give my naughty little boy a spanking when it is needed, I just stood there rubbing and saying Yes Mommy. We are now married, our sex life is good, but spankings play no part in our sex life. She has added that I will masturbate prior to a spanking, she enjoys the show and the spankings hurt more after I’ve masturbated.

Anonymous said...

That would be a no to all those questions. I'm not sure how I would react if someone did find out.


ronnie said...

I was very relieved that nothing came about from my colleague finding spanking sites. The older I get the more I'm thinking so what if someone knows that I'm spanked, but truthfully I really wouldn't want to explain. I've only told one vanilla person. I definitely wouldn't want anyone finding out about my blog especially family.


Ozarkhillbillyhippie said...

I quit caring years ago I do not hide my identity nor do I make it obvious to those who don't know who I am or what I enjoy doing in private

Anonymous said...

I outed myself, seeing a woman, five years older that I, such a wonderful person, I needed to come clean. During a visit I brought out the magazines, some stories I had written, and a couple of DVD’s. She looked at them, saying nothing, read the stories, and looked at the DVD and then she spoke. Disgusting she said, I was shocked, You best get rid of these and anymore you might have, young man and now and I found myself doing as told. I then said this is the end of our relationship I take it, she smiled and said you wish, it has just taken on another aspect. She stood up, took my arm and to the bedroom we went, told to undress I did, then taken to the bathroom, told to get in the shower and masturbate for her, looking at her I did as told and when I was done, told to take a shower and stepping out reaching for a towel, she said you will not be needed a towel, I’m wet I said, good she said. Sitting on the toilet I went over her lap and boy did my wet bottom feel the sting of her hand and I was soon pleading and promising never to have such items in the home. Standing up, rubbing she told me to the front room and I did as told. No sitting young man she said, I looked at her and said you understand, she smiled and said yes. We are still seeing one another, spankings are still given no matter where. At a nice hotel I found myself across her lap, my bare bottom feeling the sting of the hairbrush, I knew I could be heard, she could care less. At dinner I tried not to squirm, she told me others know you have been spanked, especially the women. At the pool the next day, some redness showed, a couple of ladies smiled as they walked by, one had to ask, my girlfriend told her, a spanking, best way to correct a naughty little boy. I wanted to hide, I did ask her not to tell anyone. Her response was do you wish a spanking here, no I said, your getting one back at the room.