Have you ever come close to being outed as a spanko?
Roz: We have had a couple of occasions where there has been a knock at the
door during a spanking session, or just before we were about to get
started. I did wonder what they may have heard. The fear of someone
finding my blog and joining the dots has always been in the back of my
mind.
Simon: I don't have a blog but I do have a Twitter account on which I post
pictures and short bits about my spanking adventures. I'm very careful
that the pictures don't make me easily identified but I have appeared on
some other peoples sites and been very identifiable. Initially I was
very worried about this but now I don't worry too much about it for a
couple of reasons.
1. I've retired so I don't have to worry about losing my job.
2. The people I worried most about finding out, my parents, have sadly both passed away.
3.
I realised that whilst we may think our Blogs, Twitter and other social
media are read by thousands in truth only the really popular ones have
more than a handful of readers and those readers will almost invariably
have similar interests and therefore will be sympathetic to our
activities.
Sir Wendel: I do not have a blog. If I did and someone figured it out I would not be
too concerned. In order to connect the dots that person would have to
be searching and reading spanking blogs making them just as kinky as me.
Joe: No blog, a desire I have had. I was outed by a woman I was seeing.
She found the magazines and a couple of videos and corner me when I
stepped out of the shower. She looked at me, said don’t be ashamed,
known others who enjoy this. Told to put a towel on we went to the
front room and she put in a DVD and it was a wife spanking her husband,
calling him a naughty little boy and as she spanked him said that she
will be the Mommy when he has been naughty. My girlfriend turned it off
and looked at me. Off with the towel my naughty little boy she said
with a smile, oh and you will call me Mommy. She had me across her lap,
the spanking really hurt, her hand was very hard, and when she finished
I danced around the room. Did you like that she asked, Yes Mommy, well
then Mommy will give my naughty little boy a spanking when it is
needed, I just stood there rubbing and saying Yes Mommy. We are now
married, our sex life is good, but spankings play no part in our sex
life.
Yorkie: That would be a no to all those questions. I'm not sure how I would react if someone did find out.
Ronnie: I was very relieved that nothing came about from my colleague finding
spanking sites. The older I get the more I'm thinking so what if someone
knows that I'm spanked, but truthfully I really wouldn't want to
explain. I've only told one vanilla person. I definitely wouldn't want
anyone finding out about my blog especially family.
Hermione: Once time at work, I was creating a graphic from a site that produced doorknob signs like the kind you see on hotel doors with "Do Not Disturb". Naturally I was designing a spanko one for the blog. Unfortunately, a co-worker arrived very early for a prearranged meeting. I quickly opened the spreadsheet we were to discuss. After half an hour, she suddenly wanted to go into Word for some reason or other. She opened Word and there, prominently displayed, was my spanko sign. I quickly closed it without comment, she found what she was looking for, and we went on. I was fairly rattled but neither of us ever mentioned it again.
Another time, the same co-worker and I were on a course. During a break, she saw me reading a book that she considered kinky. It actually was, but you would only know it if you were familiar with the author and the book itself. (This was years before FSoG.) I made sure that the next time I read during a break it was a completely vanilla novel, but I wondered if she was on to me. We have since both moved on to other jobs.
My biggest fear was always that co-workers would find my blog. While I did do much of my posting at work, I always used my personal laptop, carefully turned away from the open doorway.
Richard: I quit caring years ago I do not hide my identity nor do I make it
obvious to those who don't know who I am or what I enjoy doing in
private
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3 comments:
This male will never understand a woman, learned that when my girlfriend upon arriving back at our apartment and my magazines layed on the table. She was not mad, she understood, asked why I did not bring it up, I said nothing just looked at her with a slight smile. She then told me to strip and was starting to count and I soon was naked, erect and thinking this is going to be good. I went over her lap and she took a tight grip and before I knew it I was squirming, kicking, pleading, and I was loud. I did dance around the room, rubbing, I was limp and she said was that what you wanted. Not that hard, then a knock on the door, she told me to face the wall, and the neighbor lady enter, saw me, oh thought someone was getting a spanking, very nice job dear she said to my girlfriend, nice indeed and left. I had to take her out for dinner, squirming in the seat. When we got home she informed me that was not the last spanking and she will not count.
I kept my spanking desires private, so wish to spank a female beautiful bottom that I wait until I get home and well take care of the desire in private. I was dating this wonderful woman, late 20’s, our sex life was great and we just hit it off. I dropped in unannounced at her place, had a key and found her in bed with another woman. The look of shock on both of them, for some reason I just told them to get out of bed and both did standing there, covering the self. My girlfriend tried to explain, I said the word naughty and she said without thinking, Daddy we’re sorry. Daddy, that fits I said with a smile and pulled a chair to the middle of the room, who’s first I said sitting down, no response. Well my naughty little girlfriend you will be and I soundly spanked her bottom as her friend watched. The friend was pleading from the first spank and when I finished both were rubbing and saying nothing. Best get home young lady I told the friend and she dressed quickly and left. My girlfriend looke at me and rubbing harder. I told her she best not move and left the room, when I returned I was naked, erect and holding a hairbrush. Going to be a good little girl and she said Yes Daddy, I said next time will be harder. The I held her tight and rubbed her sore bottom and off to bed w went.
If a male thinks they are fooling their girlfriends or wife and they will not figure it out, boy are you in for a surprise. I awoke late Saturday morning to find my wife sitting in the middle of the front room. Care to explain she said sternly showing me that she found my magazines.
I know what you males do, naughty little boys I could understand, but adults. Off with the pajamas she said sternly and I did as told and my erection popped out. Show me she said and handed me a towel, I looked at her, best get started, and I masturbated for her and it took sometime but I did cum. She then she me a printed page, I had done a story and called my girlfriend Mommy, Have you been a naughty little boy, I suppose dear, not dear, you will call me Mommy, and suppose was the wrong answer. Mommy I have been a naughty little boy I finally said. What does Mommy do to naughty little boys, I said Mommy spanks naughty little boys. I went over her lap and found she knew how to give a sound spanking. It was a few months later, after such a spanking, I said you enjoy this, she smiled and said she did and you males don’t know us females at all. I get pleasure seeing you masturbate and spanking you, this is what you wanted was it not, I said yes.
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