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Have you ever been ready and eager for a spanking, only to have it postponed? How close did you get to actually giving or getting the spanking before it had to be delayed? What was the reason for the postponement? Did that spanking eventually occur, or was it forgotten?
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LOL! Have I?! I'm not sure about anyone else, but neither Rosa nor I are reluctant about this lifestyle and yet the number of times other stuff has gotten in the way is staggering! I couldn't even begin to put a number on it. Hell, it's happening now on something owed me.
I would say that 2 out of 3 get postponed for one reason or another, and maybe 1 in 5 being postponed so long it takes like some sort of cosmic intervention to get us back on track. Few if any are forever forgotten though. So in general I would say doing something in the moment or having something planned work out as decided is the exception, not the rule.
When I read about couples with regular routines, frequent spankings, and spontaneous actions, I can't help but wonder if I'm living in the same world as them? I just don't know how they manage it!
I think many of us spankos are missing being spanked, I certainly am. I did have a session planned with my favourite dominatrix, it was a special occasion because she was about to retire. Then the UK got locked down, the spanking got cancelled and she has now retired and that means I don't get my special spanking. It's disappointing in many ways. No spanking, not getting to say goodbye and thank you.
I did get spanked last September in the brief lockdown respite, but all masked up and socially distanced it rather took the edge off the proceedings and it's always difficult when play is with a new partner.
I've been vaccinated, both shots, so I am ever hopeful spanking life will resume very soon.
Stay safe everyone.
The biggest interruption is when the doorbell rings. When it is a delivery or someone selling something we start or continue right after they are gone. On a few occasions I was just about to begin spanking the Misses when relatives arrived. I had her over across my lap, bottom out and ready to spank when they arrived. If it is not too late when they leave I’ll give the Misses the spanking after they go.
There have been occasions where a spanking was anticipated but had to be postponed or interrupted by the phone or door knock. There was a feeling of disappointment when this happened and occasionally a feeling of relief lol
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Roz
My wife does not put off spankings, best to be applied at that time. I recall once or twice I was being spanked once when one of best friends dropped by, my wife stopped told me to get off her lap and face the wall. The talked, I stood, red bottom on display. When the friend left, I was back over her lap and the spanking continued. The other time I was over her lap, I had kicked off my pants, and my underpants were around my ankles when my mother-in-law dropped in. My wife stopped the spanking, but her Mother said they could talk and that her daughter could continue the spanking. What I did not like my mother-in-law took my underpants off, and told her daughter to spank harder. Jack
Yes. We had planned an afternoon session. While my wife was running errands in the morning, I was required to ready the bench with the pillows, towels and the four sets of restraints. I completed my tasks and began my mental preparation for a long and hard whipping. I don’t recall the reason she didn’t put me into position upon her return, but there was something that prevented the thrashing. The bench remained set up for the rest of the day. Ultimately, she told me to put everything away as it would not happen.
The hardest part about a session for me is the mental gymnastics I go through preparing for what is about to happen. I was prepared and when it didn’t happen, I was disappointed. But we found the right time and reason for one a month or so later.
I have had spankings postponed and cancelled more times than I can remember, just part of my lifestyle I suppose. The closest I have got to getting spanked and it not happening, happened with the same Top twice and I was over her knee bare back side pointing at the heavens both times when she decided that she could not spank me. On the third occasion she changed something about the situation that made her feel more comfortable and the spanking went ahead. It was down to first timers nerves. Transferring decades of fantasizing about spanking to actually landing her first real swat on a rear was a very big step for her, it happens sometimes.
Prefectdt
Definitely been times when a spanking has been postponed or interrupted. Neighbours knocking. Son calling to say he is popping in. Always a disappointment but these things happen.
Love,
Ronnie
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Sorry this is off topic, but does anyone know what happened to the other Canadian based site consensualspankingblogspot, which is also listed on your sidebar?
Anon - Consensual Spanking was removed by Blogger. Red is trying to have it reinstated.
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