Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for June 19

How do you feel about public displays of attention to your buttocks?

Jack: My wife does, sometimes to remind me of the spanking I just got and still feel, other times a way of showing who runs the household (she said women know ). One winter day at the mall, my wife reached under my coat, put her hand inside my pants and we walked as her hand rested on my bare bottom. It was a cold day and I still had a very warm bottom from the spanking I got prior to going to the mall. 

Mark: Mine doesn't. I would like it if she did though.

SPM: I pat my wife's butt in public but she does not touch mine. I wish she would.

Bonnie: My reaction depends upon the setting. If we're alone or mostly alone, I'm fine with it. If we're in a more populated place, I'm less fond, but generally not inclined to make an issue. If we are with friends, I feel obligated to display faux indigence.

Wendel: We do but in a private setting. It is not for others to see. 

Anon: My partner, when we are with friends and/or family, will give me a light pat on my butt whenever I do something she does not like me to whilst saying: no problem darling, I will deal with you later and everybody knows what that means….

Roz: Yes, on occasion Rick might quickly pat my butt while out in public. It's usually subtle and probably looks more like we are just fooling around.

Mary: My wife pats my butt whenever she feels like it. Not often but whenever she wants to. If we are alone, I will turn around and give her a kiss. In public, I pretend it did not happen but I know my face turns red.

Ronnie: Yes P will often give me a quick swat while out in public and I do enjoy it. Never does it if we are in the company of friends.

Rosco: Irene and I are affectionate but discreet.

There was one time, however, when she deviated. We were in a large shared kitchen at a vacation place cooking with several friends. Irene came up behind me and whacked my bottom several times with some sort of a wooden paddle she found. I was pretty surprised, and it smarted plenty.

I don’t know if others noticed. There have been a few occasions when our lifestyle may have been “outed”. My sister-in-law found a riding crop when she spent the night and smirked a bit. And one of Irene’s friends and a neighbor commented about how noisy we are sometimes. So people may know.

Bernie: I get the very occasional, in-public pat on the ass from my wife. It doesn't bother me anymore. I've noticed younger people smile. Maybe they thought the old people are cute.

A.J.: "Does your partner ever give you public displays of affection such as pats, pinches or spanks on the bottom?"

Give HER pats on her tush? Yes. Affectionately. Subtly.
Give her pinches or spanks? No!

Her give ME pats? Damn rare. More like the back of the hand tap with, "OK. Time to go!"
Her give ME pinches or spanks? No!

Maybe it goes back to never even touching a woman without her OK. And that would be rare.

(I had to take dancing lessons, social etiquette, etc. starting in the 4th grade - with every one of my M/F classmates. A class with maybe 60-100 9 and 10-year olds. First up - manners. And the boys were told to never touch a girl, even to shake her hand. It was OK to shake her hand - if SHE offered hers. She had to make the first move and only if she did that was it socially acceptable. To this day I am still reluctant of offer my hand to a woman. Pat her tush???? Are you kidding????)

Wendy: No PDA, of any kind, for us. I do think it would be a bit thrilling if he touched my butt when people were around, but not looking. But we reserve that sort of thing for truly private moment.

Barrel: I get pats and pinches. Never any spanks in public. I enjoy them, knowing they are an intimate connection between us. Could it be more, maybe, but not with close friends close by.

Hermione: It would never happen, although I really wouldn't mind if it did. Ron isn't one for displays of affection in public. Even hand-holding is out of bounds for him.

That's all, folks!

Glory to Ukraine