Welcome back, dear readers, to my little blog. You're just in time for brunch. Earlier this week I published an
installment of the novel
A Master of Discipline by Zoe Templeton. I chose to omit two paragraphs that contained a graphic description of fitting Ruth with a ball gag. I did so because I thought it might offend some readers, even though others may have enjoyed the description. So I would love to know what your opinion is of being silenced during a spanking.
How would you feel if you were somehow prevented from speaking or otherwise expressing yourself during a spanking? Have you ever used or worn a gag? If so, what was your impression of the experience? If not, would you be open to trying it?
Leave your response as a comment and I will publish a summary of our discussion soon.
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Hi Hermione, that story is getting a bit too dark for me. We have only tried improvised gagging, as in no ball gags or 'proper' gags on a couple of occasions. It's definitely not for me.
Gagging in any form is a definite no-go here. Apart from anything else it is potentially dangerous!
Well, in my case, Master worked way to hard to get me to be 'expressive' during a spanking...or other activities. He would never make me think that He wanted me to be gagged... unless you include a mouth full of cock. hugs abby
Right now my mom is using my front room as a bedroom. I ball up a blanket and not it. We do have a ball bag but have not used it yet. Maybe some day.
It would not work with me, I don't "give in", my wife knows that once I start squirming, kicking, she is getting to me. When I do make sounds from the pain of the spanking she always saids "Now we will get down to your spanking" and from then on I can be heard for "miles". She believes strongly that the more noise I make the more effective the spanking is. When she tells me to stand up, I start rubbing, dancing around the room, she just smiles. It is when she takes me to face the wall, spanking my sore bottom on the way. It takes awhile to get under control while facing the wall. So as far as my wife is concerned, the sound is part of the punishment. Joseph
A ball-gag is merely one way to achieve a goal. There is nothing inherently extreme about any tool, though any tool can be used to an extreme. As for us? We don't have one but only because the whole "noise thing " is neither an practical concern nor a sexual thrill. Still we have employed other things when enforcing silence WAS a goal.
I'm normally able to keep quite during a punishment apart from the occasional grunt and I do like to be able to chat if the situation calls for it. I have been gagged but only rarely as I find that gags make me gag and I can become quite nauseous and nothing ruins a spanking like the feeling that you are going to be sick at any moment.
I can't use a ball gag as I have an overbite ( um not bucked teeth! lol). We do have a bit gag that has been used on various occasions. For Barney it is another way he exerts his control. It works. It has me more focused or out of my 'head' when being reset. There are other times he has shoved a face cloth or other fabric in my mouth. I am generally very quiet during a spanking ( if you don't count laboured breathing, and snorting), so the gagging really has nothing to do with being heard outside of the area we are in. It can be very humbling for me.
Hi Hermione - I love to hear a girl moaning and pouting and thus the reason not use a gag most of the time. However, although never used an actual ball gag, I have used other specific fabric items as gags and for all the reasons Wilma explained.
In terms of the story, the ball gag wouldn't have been my issue. I was not enjoying the overall themes of extreme non-consent. It was no longer non-consent between two people, it was multiple people and the overall darker future plans. Again just my opinion which may be hard to clearly define.
No ball gags. Once P used a pair of my knickers but it made me gag so he had to take it out so no, I wouldn't like to try one.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
I don't think I would like any kind of gag. But for sure not a ball gag (or anything else that completely covered my mouth). Just the thought of it causes me anxiety.
I've never worn a gag, nor do I think I would like wearing one.
Considering I am the one giving the directions during my spanking it would not work if I were unable to speak. So that would definitely would be a no from me for gags.
Yorkie
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