Sunday, July 8, 2018

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #235


I'm so glad you could make it to today's picnic brunch. Help yourself to a snack from the basket, find a place to sit on the blanket, and let's get started. Our question today is short and sweet.

Who purchases the spanking implements: you, your partner, or both of you?

Leave your response as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.
From Hermione's Heart

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

I purchase all the implements

Anonymous said...

About 50/50. If I finds an implement I'd like her to use I'll buy it. If she finds something she wants to use on me she buys it.
archedone.

NoraJean said...

I can't remember who bought our very first implement for our 'bedroom only D/s' kink we started over 20 yrs ago ... it's a crop and since there was no online ordering in those days, I suspect it was Frank because I'd have been too shy. I do know it was bought from the local feed and tack store. About the same time, I did make us a flogger out of recycled leather from the second hand store. Now in our new ttwd path, we have just recently acquired new implements. Two that I purchased online ... a paddle and a strap ... and one pervertable Frank has retrieved from his garden greenhouse ... a whippy little bamboo tomato stake ... Yeouch! ... Frank also has his eye on a split tawse ... I'll have to do the ordering as he is not an online shopper. I think I'll wait until he insists ;)) ... nj

Windy said...

Well, I am a newbie, so I have taken advice from blogs.

First, it was on Amy's blog, but was a post by Bonnie. A leather over wood hairbrush paddle appropriately named THUD. He mostly stays in the drawer as he is very heavy duty.

Then, mostly recently, again on Amy's blog, she has something called Sir Strap. We have not named ours yet, but he is a serious fella, but it is actually working out quite nicely here according to me and to Storm.

Storm does all the actual purchasing... and did research on the 2nd implement as well beforehand. That's our story.

Fondles said...

We have both bought spanking implements, separately as well as together.

Roz said...

We have mostly purchased implements together, though I have purchased a couple on my own.

Sir Wendel Jones said...

We both buy spanking implements. It is especially fun to buy the household items that are great for spanking.

Bonnie said...

Randy jokes, "If you bring one more implement into this house, I'm going to beat your butt with it." The truth is that we both do, usually separately, but occasionally together.

Baxter said...

My wife was along when I looked at the wooden spoon in the hardware store and when I looked at the wooden paddle in the cooking store. And then in preparation for my knee operation, we bought this very long shoe horn, probably 2.5 feet long, and my wife has been spanking me with that ever since. Very stingy.

Minelle Labraun said...

Most of our implements have actually been gifts.....
I really want to purchase a few fun ones from the net.

ronnie said...

We've both bought separately and a couple of times together.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Subone said...

He tells me what he wanting and I try and find it. When I find it and he says ok I buy it.

Anonymous said...

Most I buy ! some we buy together. When we buy together he has to
make sure the clerk knows that they will be used on him.Funny how
many different reactions that can get.

Anonymous said...

Together. But rarely as all my SO's (and me, too!) prefer the bare hand.

The one time I demonstrated some "independent initiative" was the one time I told you about in a real-life story where I got the owner of an antiques store involved. Uhhhhh... Yeah. That was a mistake. A BIG one.

A.J.

Anonymous said...

Even though I am the one who is spanked I am the driver in our activities and I am the one who buys the implements.

Yorkie

Anonymous said...

I have purchased most of them for my wife Irene to use on me as she sees fit. Originally spanking was my idea, but she might even enjoy it more than I do at this point.

At first she used hairbrushes and ping pong paddles, but then we happened to be alone in the tack room at a place where horses were kept. Nervously she thrashed my bottom with a riding crop hoping nobody would hear. A few weeks later Irene sent me out to buy one. (This was mid 80’s well before online shopping.) I was plenty nervous at the western store as a sexy full figured young woman “helped” me. She offered to show me how much a certain crop would sting, then quickly laughed it off. I bought two crops that day which we kept for some time.

Nowadays buying online or at an adult store is no big deal.

Irene also instructs me to look for switches when we’re out hiking. In our area, wild plum trees often have straight supple shoots in late spring.

She has a strong preference for round handles, and we have yet to find a strap that is totally suitable. I continue to look.

For us it’s mostly whips etc rather than paddles these days. I wonder how others feel.

I love it when she tells me what implements to get for her and to strip and stand in her closet and wait to be punished.

Rosco

- Rosco

Anonymous said...

My wife always, and when I'm present. She has a particular store, the ladies all know her, even have suggestions. It is a reminder that she is in charge, and does not care if others know, I think she enjoys that part.