Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for July 28

Have you ever done or said something that you now regret, and need to be spanked for?

Anon 1: It is not a regret, but spankings I need. My girlfriend at the time, now my wife would with a smile say a spanking would do me good, that was all. I don't regret what I did to finally get her to spank me, but the timing was not right at all. I went to her apartment to pick her up for dinner, I was just wearing a long coat, nothing under, so when she opened the door I would flash her. What happened I did not expect, it was her best friend who opened the door, and then calmly said it for you Susan. I quickly stepped inside and Susan looked at me, smiled, and grabbed my arm. Off with the coat she said and I protested until she finally had enough and it was off. I was soon over her lap, her friend had gotten the hairbrush and the spanking I wanted, was happening but not the way I wanted it to happen.

Alex: I am usually the one doing the spanking, but after confessing to my fiancé that while away in another country for my job, I had an affair with a woman for seven months. When I returned home I never told her about it. She had told me if I had done anything while i was away I should confess it before we married. I didn't and we got married. After a few years we were about to begin family planning. At that time my wife warned me that if I had committed any infidelity either before or since we married and I had not confessed it and she discovered it later she would leave me.

If there was one thing I knew about her was she meant it. I was riddled both with guilt as well as fear if she found out she would leave me. She had been off the pill about seven months when one nite after we had sex I blurted out my confession. Five minutes after I confessed she was out of the house.The next four months were the worst of my life. Finally our counselor aherranged for a face to face session. She finally asked to speak to the woman, who by that time was in the states.To this day I am not sure what was said between them. The only thing my wife would reveal was that my former lover told her I needed to be spanked for anything i did wrong. My wife took it literally and that weekend she developed our procedure.

Weekly I kneel before her naked and holding her hand confess anything i had done wrong. And so it began.... that was 5 years ago. Every Saturday  I strip naked and confess. Sometimes I am not punished; other times like telling her a lie about a business trip so I could sneak off to Vegas with fellow workers for a quick 24 hours of gambling earned me two months of bare assed spankings with my own belt. ( it is a very thick black leather two inch wide belt that leaves marks welts for days.) Strangely when two months were over, I missed the connection between us. Now when I feel that craving I ask for it.

My wife says she knows a few days before I ask when I crave it. It isn't the pain I crave but it is a way to show her my need for her..

Roz: A number of years ago I spent the day visiting my parents who, at the time lived about an hour away and the trip included driving over a notorious mountain range. Rick always worried about me doing that drive and was also away at the time and I failed to let him know once I was home safely. He was beside himself with worry. The weather had also been dodgy that day and we later found out someone did indeed crash on that road that night.

This resulted in a fairly serious spanking. I felt terrible for worrying Rick like that, and really had no excuse. The spanking cleared the air for both of us.

Prefectdt: I have a list as long as my...no my arm is not long enough for that comparison.

One thing that I greatly regret and have never been corrected for is the awful moustache that I grew, as soon as I was able to, back in the 1980's. I grew it because Midge Ure of the band Ultravox had one and I thought it was cool at the time. I wore that moustache until 1993 and now every time that I look at a photograph of myself, from that era, I cringe and wish that someone had bought me to book about it. It truly was a terrible moustache.

Domhnall: With my wife’s permission, I have been seeing a professional disciplinarian for over ten years. On two occasions I confessed a past error to her and asked to be dealt with. These past errors had been troubling me for many years and, to my surprise, the discipline sessions actually set me free from the guilt I had been experiencing. To be honest, I had always felt that discipline spankings were similar to role playing but I found the experience to be very effective in clearing my conscience and would avail myself of the experience again should the need arise.

Barrel: Yes, I have said some things in the past that I regret. 20 years later, I am embarrassed I said the things I did. My wife employed disciplinary spankings, first to relieve her frustration with me, and second to try to teach me a lesson. I have mellowed a bit as I age and she has not had the need to discipline me in the same manner. Today our thrashings are more stress relief for me. She can read me when one is needed and I am getting better at knowing the same, and asking for a serious session. Life, including spanking, is really good right now.

Wendel: We will get into arguments and stop talking to each other for a few hours. As we start to make up I usually request a spanking with the belt for arguing. After she whips my bottom The Misses will request a spanking for her part in the fight. When the spankings are over we hold each other tight and remember how much we love each other (and how sore our bottoms are).
Also, Every so often the Missies will come home from shopping carrying lots of bags. She’ll go straight for the paddle and present it to me requesting a spanking for spending too much.

Hermione: When I was at university I had a summer job at a discount store. In those days security was very lax; no cameras or scanners, all transactions were manual, and I was sometimes the only employee on the floor. I often helped myself to the merchandise without paying for it. Nothing large or valuable, just small things. I knew it was wrong but it was just so easy, and the temptation was too much to resist. I have long since given up my thieving tendencies and have never shoplifted since that time, but I really deserve a spanking for my summer of crime.

That was cathartic! Thank you all for your confessions.