Jack: The scolding, long, especially if someone else is present. Standing there pants and underpants around your ankles, saying nothing, wanting to get the spanking over.
Peter: I think Jack says it all. When we began a few year ago, it was a private spanking followed by corner time with a bare bottom and nose against the wall. Slowly she demanded more and we both found it arousing. I have been spanked in front of a few friends, and earlier this year my best buddy revealed that he too was spanked by his wife. When we spent a weekend in May with them at their place by the lake, he and I were spanked by our wives at the same time We both stood naked and were standing side by side. Witnessing his paddling then his mine, was very intense. Later he agreed it was good feeling to be able to have a buddy you can chat with about this topic.
Thanks, love this site.
Roz: Great question Hermione! For me it's the anticipation and preparation and how it makes me feel afterwards.
Amy: Lately it's being over Eric's knee. The secure feeling of my body across his legs, pressed against his chest. I listen as he lectures or scolds or reminds, all with the loving intention of keeping us close and me, strong. I know what's coming and then when he starts to spank, the initial pain kills me but that warm burning sensation that comes afterwards is incredible.
QBuzz: Definitely the spanking itself if it's OTK. The mixture of pain and intimacy is unbeatable.
Barrel: I agree with Roz, it is the build up to a long and serious punishment session. In our case, that build up takes place over several days, usually culminating in a date lunch when my wife lovingly tells me what she has planned. She has learned to torment me with the anticipation knowing the only way I can end it is by laying down on the bench at the foot of our bed to be thrashed.
Domhnall: That moment when my fear of the next stroke changes to a fear that the next stroke will not come.
Rosco: Interesting question. It’s the relaxation. Some people meditate, I get spanked.
I love the sensation- the sting (like tart lemonade on a hot day) followed by the warmth.
But mostly, the whole experience is relaxing. It takes me entirely out of daily worries and focuses me on my body and Irene’s body. Not just the spanking but also the lecture, the cunnilingus and whatever else we’ve added to the scene.
Often I’m tied up and blindfolded after the initial spanking and “put down” for a nap, which works well to my surprise.
Bonnie: For me, the best part is being able to live my fantasies, dreams, and aspirations in real time. It's the chance to experience every sensation, feel every emotion, and indulge every passion. And to do so with my one lover.
With the passage of time and grudging acknowledgement of the aging process, our spanking adventures have become less ambitious. But our imaginations and ingenuity remain as strong as ever. I still speak the words, "Yes, sir," as I climb onto our spanking bench.
A.J.: As I have said before, I have no interest in punishment spankings. I/we spank only for the eroticism and what it leads to, if-you-know-what-I-mean-and-I-think-you-do....
Best part for me on the receiving end? Like some of the above comments, the anticipation of what's to come. Her look and "I'm in charge" attitude she shows. The nervous dryness in my mouth when she is seated and ready to begin. The warmth from her body as I go OTK. And THE BEST - when she lowers my shorts baring the target. There is just something about those few seconds....! (Vulnerability?) The moment after when she rests her hand on one of my bare cheeks is also nice.
After that it is just the spanking, not hard - but not soft either.
And when the roles are reversed? Pretty much the same thing. Feeling the warmth of her body over my lap, followed by my slowly pulling down or off her panties baring her bottom, and hearing her little "Ummmm...". There is something about that moment, too.
The 2nd part of your question: "Has it changed over time, or has it remained constant?"
Constant. From day #1, too many years ago.
Wendel: I enjoy watching the Misses pull down her pants before going across my lap. Also enjoy watching as her bottom turns red during the spanking. When the Misses does the spanking I enjoy the spanking.
Tomy Nash: These days it's the memories. And those memories are a treasure trove of her love, dedication, generosity, and all she did to build me into the person I am today.
Aunt Kay helped change the world and I am grateful for the way she changed mine.
Yorkie: I think it is everything, but I especially like the spanking itself. Anticipating and then experiencing each implement and the unique feeling each one gives is intoxicating.
Anon: I'm Jack wife and he is allowed on this site because I have no problems with it, other sites I do. This needs a woman's view and with Jack he looks so cute and little when it comes to a spanking. I normally just bare his bottom and make him stand and get his scolding....So this is how I enjoy his spanking, in this house I'm in charge, and this Mommie spanks her naughty little boy on the spot no matter who might be present.
Ronnie: Everything - the anticipation, emotion, sensation, intimacy, the spanking itself and the words P uses.
Hermione: At one time it was the anticipation, never knowing exactly when it would happen, or watching the clock when I did know when. Now my favourite thing is the point at which the spanking stops hurting too much and starts feeling just right and oh, so good.
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