Sunday, September 7, 2014

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #36

Welcome one and all to another weekend brunch. This week Ronnie posted a question on her blog: what do you like about being spanked? I decided to turn the tables on that question, and I'm posing the opposite to you today.

What, if anything, do you dislike about spanking?

Leave your response as a comment, and I'll publish a summary of our discussion in the next post.

From Hermione's Heart

17 comments:

Dan - A Disciplined Hubby said...

Hi Hermione. At the time it is happening, there is very little I DO like about it. I'm usually just hoping it stops soon.

Sir Wendel Jones said...

Hmmm. Can't think of anything I dislike.

Autumn said...

I dislike the expectations it gives me. For example, if my husband gives me a particularly amazing spanking one day, and the next time it's not as good, I am a little disappointed. I wish I could just enjoy each one for what it is, rather than set my expectations every time.

Amber Wolfe said...

Hmm. Had to think on this one! Only thing that came to me is - I dislike that they have to end. haha. :) xx brat

River Wild said...

I dislike the fact that they have to hurt! Many years ago when we began our spanking/dd journey, the spankings really turned me on, even while they were happening. Now we rarely do erotic spanking, but sometimes the occasional warm-up is semi enjoyable :-) I love EVERYTHING else besides the physical pain.

Minelle Labraun said...

I always anticipate a spanking with excitement....but when its happening, I think I am crazy.
It hurts! LOL
It is such a love hate thing!

Pecan nutjob said...

What I dislike about spanking is how it is seen by most of the "vanillas" out there. Either they find it crazy, either they assume it's full blast BDSM, either they believe it is necessary in some D/s relation as in Fifty Shades (I've not read it but it seems from what I heard that the relation between the protagonists is "wrong" in many respects). No, I'm no latex fetichist, and I'm not into leather either, and we don't say "master" or "mistress" to each other. I just want to spank and get spanked "family style", a bit like a disobedient child would have been spanked 60 years ago.

Another thing (but that's largely a consequence of the first) is that we have to hide ourselves. Granted, people neither do have vanilla sex in public, but they can purchase condoms and lube openly at a drugstore or supermarket, and it's no big deal if the neighbors hear a little sex noise from time to time or if visitors see contraceptive pills in the bathroom cupboard. With spanking, one has to be more careful.

Anonymous said...

Spanking is a love hate relationship. We have several implements that deliver a nice sting. What I hate is when she uses the hair brush. I don't know why but that darn thing really gets me hollering and kicking.
archedone

Anonymous said...

Spanking her spacious bottom makes my average size hand quite sore after a few dozen spanks !

Roz said...

It is such a love/hate relationship. It hurts, but I love the connection and how it makes me feel afterwards. Also, if it's a punishment, I hate the feeling that I have disappointed him.

Hugs
Roz

DelFonte said...

Waiting for one. The longer the wait, the more it hurts until I toughened up again.

Baxter said...

I think the pain. Kind of a love/hate thing. My wife's technique is getting better, if you will, and the pain a bit more intense. But I don't want the spanking to end either. I want the spanking to continue even tho it can hurt a lot. I don't know how to explain it or maybe I just did. Hmmm.
Baxter

Bonnie said...

Not one thing.

sub hub in phx said...

Hi Hermione. I truly don't like it when it is happening, especially now because Mistress has determined that the spankings need to be much longer and much more severe in order to curb bad behavior. That being said, I wouldn't trade being a spanked husband for anything!

One thing that I don't like about spanking being used as a punishment is that it can't often be given at a moments notice because of the discretion that is required.

Love your blog as always my dear!

ronnie said...

Can't think of anything I dislike about spanking.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Rollin said...

I also dislike the stigma attached to the enjoyment of spanking by adults. It's viewed either as a joke or "sick" by many who should know better, and this is by people who would never be so politically incorrect as to disrespect gay lifestyles.

Dr. Ken said...

The only thing I dislike is the fact that I don't have a regular partner and therefore don't get to spank often enough!