Monday, September 22, 2014

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for September 21

This week's topic was your spanking bucket list.

sub hub in phx: I have a spanking bucket list, like I'm sure everyone involved in spanking does. Mine is to be summoned to a punishment by my Mistress K., and in the room are other would-be Dominant wives seeking to implment a FLM of their own. I am wearing a chastity cage aunder my clothes and am ordered to strip naked to prepare for my punishment. Mistress is not happy with me and lets her "students" know that this is the punishment kind of spanking and not the sexy foreplay kind. My usual instinct is to get an erection but the thought of what is about to happen to me prevents what the cage would've otherwise prevented on its own. I am naked, standing in the middle of the room and told to put my hands on my head and not to move while receiving my spanking.

I don't know if I'll get to put a check mark next to that or not.

Simon: I have never had a bucket list as such indeed I don't think it was a term I'd even heard used in the UK until relatively recently. I did have a number of spanking wishes and desires and I have been lucky enough to have satisfied the majority. So I have been spanked by a number of ladies at the same time, I have been punished in front of a large audience (at a spanking party) and been caned by two highly skilled ladies (one left handed and one right) at the same time. I suppose my main wish years ago was to find the perfect Mistress for me and I was lucky enough to do so 15 years ago. With her help I have achieved all my spanking desires so now if we do anything new it will be a surprise to me and who knows if I will enjoy it.

Six of the best: On my spanking bucket list I would love to spank all my submissive female bloggers which would include Hermione, Erica, and Bonnie on their bare voluptuous bare bottoms, etc. One can always dream such a wonderful dream. For I sure would be in heaven.

Baxter: I guess my bucket list would be limited to being spanked by two women at the same time and those two would be my wife and her sister. Another bucket item is that I fantasize about being spanked by certain female coworkers OR spanking them.

mouse: While mouse has seen the bucket list thing going around many of the blogs she follows, it's never occurred to her to have one. Omega has given much more than mouse ever believed possible. He's honed the rough edges, and maybe she's done the same to him as well.

Can't even begin to think or consider what more there could be. Interesting topic to be sure.

Dan: I don't know whether I would describe these as a real "bucket list," because I don't know whether I really would want to do them if the chance did arise, versus just leaving them as "what ifs." With that caveat, a few would be:

-- Being spanked to tears
-- Being spanked outside on a hiking trail where someone might see
-- Receiving a disciplinary spanking at the place where I work
-- Receiving a disciplinary spanking from another man. (That one is definitely more of a "what if" than a "I would really like to try..."

Rose: I have a vanilla and a kinky bucket list. I am working on both.
*An outdoor spanking is at the top of my list.
*A punishment with a observer or two.
*Getting close to another dd couple. So close that he has punishment privileges.

Sir Wendel: Only one wish on the list:
To get paddled while another woman watches.

Arched one: I never thought of it as a spanking bucket list. Some of them have been crossed off. I've been spanked in every room of the house. I've been spanked outside by the pool and I've been spanked by the sea shore at night. And let's not forget the spanking in the woods. What is left is having someone watching me get spanked then being allowed to spank me too.

Ronnie: You know mine. Simple outdoor spanking in the woods and on a deserted beach. Though I'm sure I'll be adding more.

Anon1: Top of the list - there was once a photo in Playboy of Kim Kardashan, lying face down and bare, with her amazing white bottom arched upwards just waiting for me to spank it to tomato redness. Having achieved that one, which I never will, I would want to work my way through the 'Rear of the Year' winners' bottoms - Carol Vorderman, Fiona Bruce etc. A celeb bottom must be the ultimate but unattainable target?

 Dr. Ken: Top of the list would be to get into a relationship with a lady who is as much of a spanko as I am.

Next would be the chance to spank some of the wonderful spanking models that are out there--Amber "Pixie" Wells, for example, or Sarah Gregory, or Nyssa Nevers...the list goes on and on.

Anon2: Can we have a place for the Spanko Brunch 2.0 that has only women who want men to spank them? I find all of these men who want a woman (or more than one woman!) to spank to be just too "off-topic". The dynamic is so different. Also, years ago the Spanko Brunches were 99% women spanked by men, but now seem to be about 50% men spanked. The dynamic here has changed. I'm sure the replies to this request will be that we should be "inclusive" and that "It's all spanking", but I'm sure I'm not alone in feeling like the relationship dynamics are simply not the same.

I don't even want to contribute my response to the Brunch question because it will be posted alongside posts by men who want to be spanked. To me (and probably many other anonymous lurkers), it is just not the same thing.

Anon2, everyone with an interest in spanking - male or female, top or bottom, dominant or submissive -  is welcome here. In the early days of Bonnie's spanko brunches, it's quite possible that the readership was mainly female spankees. But as time passed, her brunches (and now mine) were more well-attended by men, and that's a very positive thing. No one needs to feel excluded here. We all share a common interest in spanking. If you are not comfortable leaving a comment here, because of whoever else might also be commenting, then that's your prerogative. I hope one day you might reconsider. 

Katie: I've never given having a spanking bucket list a thought, Hermione! I saw Ronnie's post the other day and enjoyed reading hers. I will have to think about it.

Autumn: The spanko, exhibitionist side of me wants to go to one of these spanking parties people talk about (i.e. Shadow Lane, Crimson Moon).

The DD side of me wants to meet up with other DD couples, though that probably wouldn't include any spanking--just fun and conversation!

Hermione: I would like to try some of the furniture commonly used for spanking: a spanking bench, vaulting horse, stocks, and St. Andrew's cross. Also on my list are spankings in various historical sites, and a spanking in an airplane, train, boat, car, and other modes of transportation. Then there's role-play - being spanked by a headmaster, stern butler, executive chef or other male authority figure.

Thank you all for sharing your lists. I hope you fulfill your dreams.
From Hermione's Heart


sixofthebest said...

Hermione, you mentioned you would like to be spanked in some form of transportation. How about a SPACE CAPSULE. "Fly me to the Moon"

Anonymous said...

On my bucket list would be to
spank Kit ST James, if you know you she is. She has made spanking
video's and has a most wonderful
Also would like her to
spank me.


Simon said...

Thank you for your response to anon2's comment. I have always felt that your brunches (and of course your predecessors) have been open to both male and female spankees and am glad to have had that confirmed. Of course Anon2 is entitled to his opinion and his preferences and I am sorry if the responses from male spankees are not to his taste but the good thing about your blog (and several others) is that it caters to spankers of all hues and we are all welcome. As it happens I enjoy descriptions and pictures of ladies being spanked but all my experiences (at least for the last 15 years) have been on the receiving end which is why my comments are usually about men (me) being punished.

Hermione said...

Six - Yes, I'll add that mode of transportation to my list.

Ronjon - That's an excellent goal.

Simon - You are very welcome. Gender does not matter to me; a common interest in spanking is what unites us all. I would be very sorry to hear that someone thought my blog was not a place for everyone to feel welcome.