We don't have punishment spankings in our house. They're for fun, erotic entertainment and maintenance. Ron always counters any suggestion that I be spanked for some minor infraction with a flat refusal. To him, spankings are my rewards, not punishments, and I have always agreed, until a few days ago. Now I've begun to think he's changing his ideas, and here's why.
The first incident occurred just as we were getting ready to go upstairs for some recreational OTK fun. Ron had warned me ahead of time how he wanted me to handle the dogs. He reminded me to carry Fang up the stairs because Fluffy wasn't feeling well and sometimes Fang can be too exuberant when he knows there are treats in store. But I became preoccupied with the thought of the upcoming spanking and simply forgot about the dogs. Ron wasn't happy about the chaos and turmoil that ensued, although we finally got the dogs into their crates without any real problems.
I figured it would put a damper on the mood, but once I was bare-bottomed and bent over the bed, the spanking began quite normally. Then, quite unexpectedly, Ron attacked my bottom with a flurry of swats. He was using the wooden shoehorn, as I recall.
"You disobeyed me about the dogs, didn't you?" he asked.
"Yes, I'm sorry, Sir!" I squeaked. Where had this come from?
"Will you do what you're told next time?" he continued, and the paddling became harder.
"Yes, Sir. Ow! Ow!" Was I being punished? I think that's possible.
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The second incident happened a week later. I was being treated to the leather paddle and the black strap, with a little of the maplewood spatula for good measure. After a few swats with said spatula, Ron stopped.
"Did you put your belt on top of my watch?" he asked.
"Why are you looking around instead of attending to my bottom? Are you bored?" I turned around and looked too. Ron's watch lay on his dresser, and I had folded my shorts and placed them on the dresser too. The belt buckle did seem to be rather close to the watch, but it didn't seem to be a big deal.
"I didn't hear any glass break. It shouldn't be a problem." Wrong answer. The maple implement struck home hard and briskly on my unprotected bottom.
"Ow! Ow! I'm sorry! I'll be more careful next time," I promised.
Could this be the start of a new phase in our spanking relationship? I'll keep you posted.
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We have a punishment spanking on Sunday's, at which time Kallisto receives swats for her accumulated demerits. I've never given her an impromptu one though. Sounds like it could be fun. The shoehorn is an interesting idea too.
It does sound promising! And this is the kind of 'punishment' that really appeals to me. I mean he just an annoyed husband using a handy way to get his point across. He not spanking you for something he ordered you to do - just getting your attention in an excellent way!
Hugs,
PK
It does indeed look like the start of a new phase.
Your reactions (Sorry, Sir! ; Yes, Sir!) are already perfect.
We're looking forward to increasing fun on Hermione's Heart.
How is Fluffy?
Ha! I kinda smiled. Sorry :)
I think you could be right though...
Dee x
Sounds like it to me....
Hermione,
I agree with PK. I enjoy this type of fun punishment. I thought that your responses to Ron were hilarious. Please keep us posted on future "punishments."
Terrific post.
Hug,
joey
We do this too, and I don't really classify them as punishments but that's just semantics. He's irritated about something and we happen to have a way to communicate that irritation. I'm still getting (in a roundabout way) what I want, and he gets to relieve his frustration. Works like a charm and saves on fights for us :) Good luck!
Spanky - I like the idea of a regular day for punishment.
PK - I like it that way too. Who knows what may develop.
Bas - Fluffy is fine now, thanks.
Dee - It's okay to smile. I did!
Mick - Good. I', glad you agree.
Joey - I will try to document them as soon as I can after one, so I don't forget.
Rosie - It's certainly a win/win situation.
Hugs,
Hermione
Hermione, I agree with your husband. There are times when a woman is naughty, very naughty, and I have always believed that when this occurs, a woman should be punished for it. Of course depending on her errors, this corporal punishment, may be given to her, by a hand, paddle, hairbrush, birchrod, or the cane,on her bare bottom.
Yes, keep us posted. Interesting. Have a good Thursday.
Dear Hermione,
Here it is exactly the same. Spankings are for fun! (And a lot of erotic pleasure in it...)
However, just like Femme wrote a week ago in one of her postings, we found out that there are moments that the "feeling of a punishment, can change a moment, and make it even more intense.
A few weeks ago asked after a serious middle of the night spanking or I was angry. I myself tought I was only being very clear that I had to spank her.
There is a thin line, and we wander around it. Yes, oure spankings are erotic, and even in the moments we tease each other, I can ask her or it is a reward or a punishment. From the moment we decide that it is a punishment, the spanking becomes more "dark" and had another impact on the both of is.
Thanks for sharing your toughts!
Regards, Monsieur Fessee
Interesting post and I love reading the comments, especially PK, Rosie, Monsieur Fesse because they express how we are and how sometimes I wish we were. I think I will have hubby read this post and comments. Thanks.
"I didn't hear any glass break" LOL. That's something I would say and yes, definitely wrong answer.
Certainly sounds promising Hermione. Look forward to hearing more.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Ouch! Um...it doesn't sound like you want any help in deterring this, but I have an idea anyway. Give him a big hug and kiss afterward and say thank you, very sweetly, for such a lovely little punishment. That it made your day.
*giggle*
If I could ever have stopped sulking long enough after an (unwanted) punishment, I would have loved to try it. I bet it would have stopped punishment spankings in a jiffy.
As to how to get more punishment spankings, I'm afraid I can't help you much. Breathe? Wake up in the morning? That's how I usually earn mine. :P
It does sound like a new phase indeed....maybe you should try a little more testing to be sure. Keep us in the know.
Six - I quite agree.
SNP - I will let you know of any further progress.
M Fessee - I agree, there is indeed a thin line.
Sunnygirl - Please do. Maybe I should ask Ron to do the same:)
Ronnie - I don't know how I come up with those quips. Maybe I've been reading Erica's blog too much.
Ana - I usually do thank him in just that way, for any spanking.
Dancingbarez - I'll have to apply some IT testing principles here. That could take a while,a nd a lot of spankings:D
Hugs,
Hermione
We will be looking forward to hearing more about your new adventure! Personally I believe discipline should definitely be a part of DD. Erotic play is fun, but at times serious discipline should also fit in, and I find it does wonders for her attitude, and mine to for that matter :)
HUGS,
Dave
Welcome to the club Hermione.
Kiki
otk4us2 - Welcome!
Kiki - Thanks, I think!
Hugs,
Hermione
Fabulous.... both types of spankings help make life for Cindy and I even better. These spankings will be out of the blue in your mind, but have a justifiable reason in Ron's mind.Little things that have always bothered him will be changed, and you will have as your reward a spanking when you did N
OT expect any.
example: I would leave cupboard and closet doors open, as I might be back in a few minutes.. they are always closed now, and every time I close them I know I am doing something that Cindy appreciates. Don't worry, Ron will not run out of ideas for quite sometime. You might even be leaving the bathroom with the toilet seat up, deliberately.
bottoms up
red
LOL....sure seems like it to me....
join the rest of us!
abby
I like what PK and sunny said....Yep okay. Good going I think!:-)
Oh, the wascal!
He's just looking for an excuse,
or excuses, isn't he?
(And it's fun being just a wee-bit of a naughty brat, isn't it?)
;-),
Ricky
Awaiting more posts!
Sure sounds like discipline to me, especially the "sorry's" lol.
I'm still amazed at the idea of not spanking you for punishment. You lost me for a minute there.
Sounds like times, they are a-changing ;)
stormy
Red - Leave the toilet seat UP? That's not something women do. Maybe putting the toilet roll up the "wrong" way will earn me a swat.
Abby - It's about time:)
Minelle - It's very good!
Rocky - I agree, he seems to need an excuse, and bratting is fun!
Stormy - He spanks me because he likes it, and so do I. I think the punishment idea is his attempt to inject some variety and spice.
Hugs,
Hermione
Hermione: Mars and Venus... there is a right way and a wrong way of putting toilet paper on the roll... heaven help us poor men...
Red
yes i think it is a new phase for both of you... but it sounds lovely cos it's so natural. not in a premeditated way that may ruin the dynamic for both of you. I think if BIKSS announced suddenly that we were going to have punishments and rules i'd be appalled and maybe even resentful.
but he has sometimes made extra sure that i knew what i was doing wasn't healthy for me while spanking me (during maintenance or release spankings)and while they're still enjoyable, they aren't exactly fun and erotic either. i DO still get aroused, but there's a very clear message during THOSE spankings that I should have handled things differently or whatever.
so yeah, not really punishment, but more like an attention grabber and a "hey pay attention..." kind.
Sounds like you may be joining the club.
oh my goodness you had me laughing out loud, especially at "i didnt hear any glass break" :)
I think you are right about the punishment, and when they start giving it, and see the results they never stop again.
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