Tuesday, March 26, 2013

More Answers

I received some more questions last week from a few inquiring minds, so here goes:

Q: I think a lot of us see you as an icon, a celebrity in our spanking world. Do you see yourself that way?
A: Goodness gracious no! I see myself as a very small fishie in an ocean of excellent bloggers, many with far more experience and talent than I have. I just do my best to swim along with the current.

Q: Do you identify as more a spanko and not a submissive?
A: Actually, I am very much a submissive. My husband and I have a D/s relationship, and it has been that way from the start. He is in control of how we proceed through life, and I follow his lead. The fact that I love to be spanked is very fortunate for me, as it is a perfect way for me to submit to Ron.

Q: Part 1. I assume when you're spanked you experience the endorphin rush that is often identified as part of subspace. What do you call it?
A: I experience an endorphin rush every time I receive a spanking. I don't have any particular name for it, other than a feeling that adrenalin is flowing. It makes me welcome the pain and crave more. Subspace, on the other hand, feels like an out of body experience to me, although everyone perceives it in a slightly different way. I am aware of what's happening, but sort of floating above it. It doesn't happen all that often, but when it does I quite enjoy the feeling.

Q: Part 2. Does it always, typically, occasionally, or rarely translate into foreplay and then sex?
A: That's up to Ron. Usually the spanking itself is not associated with sex at that moment, although sometimes it happens then or later.

Q: What's your favorite spanking position and has it changed over time?
A: My dream position is being bent over the soft, rounded, overstuffed arm of an upholstered chair or sofa, with my ankles secured to the legs of the furniture.

Q: Is there a position that stings more than the others?
A: If I am lying flat, any implement seems to sting more.

There are still a few days left in Q&A month, so if there's anything you want to ask me, now's your chance!
From Hermione's Heart


Anonymous said...


Thank you very much for the Q&A.


Roz said...

These were really great questions Hermione and I enjoyed reading your answers. Thanks for sharing.


Fondles said...

very informative indeed. I seem to feel that it stings less if I'm on my front, and flat. It always hurts more when I'm bent over - like the skin is stretched taut or something?

Thanks for sharing! LOved the questions.

Hermione said...

Joey - It was fun to do.

Roz - My pleasure.

Fondles - Isn't that interesting. I guess we all feel things differently.


Aimless Rambling said...

You may not think so, but I think of you as an Icon of this community.

ronnie said...


Thanks for answering the questions. Interesting reading.

Much too modest with your answer to first question.


Christina said...

Thanks for sharing the answers! That's the best part about Q&A March!

Terpsichore said...

fun to learn more about you...thanks for sharing! :-)

Bobbie Jo said...

Hermione, that endorphin rush is one of the stages of subspace. I go into it every time and I have come close to going deeper, though I haven't reached that sort of "lala land" yet.

Ashley said...

I use to follow you all the time...and now I remember why. Your posts are fun :) Maybe you've answered this but how long have you been in a D/s relationship?

Minielle Labraun said...

I love hearing more about you too.

Hermione said...

Sunny - Aw, I'm blushing!

Ronnie - You are too kind.

Christina - Let's do it again next year.

Terps - It was my pleasure.

Bobbie Jo - Some lucky people can get there easily, but I'm not one of them.

Ashley - Ashley - Welcome back. I'd say it's been about 30 years.

Minelle - Thanks!