Do you remember the worst spanking you ever received or gave?
Amy: I can think of two examples and both happened in the very beginning.
Eric was so worried about being too hard on me, that first "swat" got a
look from me like, "Uh... that's all you got?" LOL. The other example
was when we tried our first "role play" and I just thought he was such a
cute tough guy, I was beaming and grinning to the point that he threw
up his hands, announced that this was not working, and walked away. In
both instances, we learned that communication is key and that this whole
spanking thing is actually a partnership, a dance as it were.
abby: It was at least 19 years ago...maybe more. We had been
mis-communicating all day...both of our faults. He decided I needed a
'barn-burner' spanking...I leaned over the chair, it was short, but with
the large paddle and all hard ones. He finished I got up and stomped
up the stairs ignoring Him telling me to come back, I stopped at the top
and heard Him say come back we are not done. I almost just kept
walking out the door, I was furious...but I stopped and walked back
down the stairs...and he pulled me in for a big bear hug, and pulled me
on his lap so we could talk it out. It could have ended very
differently...but I am so glad it did not.
Rosco: A bad spanking - is there really such a thing? Perhaps one that never really got started.
The
cute, high energy, flirty but bratty Monica finally crossed the line by
spitting sticky gooey slurpee on me. I chased her and landed a solid
swat on her bottom. But she got away and I chased her again determined
to giver her the punishment she deserved and seemed to be asking for.
But then in stepped Molly who told us both to grow up. What a bitch.
Funny, when I first read the question I thought it was about a spanking
that didn’t work for some reason, not one that was especially hard or
embarrassing.
My wife Irene spanks me once a week or so, usually
but not always prior to reverse cowgirl cunnilingus and other related
activities. The spankings are certainly consensual but once we start
it’s important for me to play the part of a naughty boy getting what he
deserves. Irene tells me that she really does like to hurt me a bit. I
would describe all her spankings as Intense but not severe. She leaves
my bottom tender for several days, but never really bruised or worse.
But
there have been times when she’s been less than careful with whips or
other implements and the lash wraps around and gets me on the hipbone. A
few times she’s also mistakenly struck my testicles with force.
Whenever these things happen, the delightful sexual aspect of our
encounter disappears immediately. So those times were the worst, but
Irene has been more careful for many years.
Roz: Two spankings come to mind. Rick was away and I was going to visit my
parents which involved driving a notorious stretch of road which
included a small, very windy mountain pass and I was returning after
dark. I failed to check in and let him know I was home again (also a
rule at the time). Poor Rick was beside himself with worry and the
spanking that followed was a serious one which included a few different
implements. What made it more memorable was the emotion and feelings
involved on both our parts. Not a 'bad' spanking but definitely
memorable.
The other occasion was one time something very minor
had happened, which wouldn't usually have upset Rick at wll, but he
spanked me with no prelude or aftercare, which is unheard of. I was left
angry, upset and confused. We talked after and he apologised and
admitted he was just using an excuse to try out a new implement. He
could, of course have done so in a fun/play setting. Needless to say it
never happened again.
Yorkie: Like I say to my wife, there is no such thing as bad sex. Any time I can
be intimate and connected to my wife is always good. As my spankings
are always erotic and turn me on immensely, I am of the same opinion
about spankings for the same reasons as for sex.
Anon 1: My wife is the head of the household, most males would not want to admit
that. The worst spanking was on the first
visit to my mother-in-law, a year after our marriage. I have an
attitude my wife addresses at the time, I was warned about that, plus my
behavior, I have to have my way, man of the house attitude. It is a
good two days' trip and she reminded as I drove she would not hesitate
giving me a spanking. At the hotel stepping out of the shower prior to
going to dinner, she showed me the dreaded hairbrush and I knew I better
be good.
It was the third day that I messed up, my wife pointed to the
bedroom, my mother-in-law with a smile on her face. In the bedroom my
wife waster no time, I was to undress, no pleading, I did and stood
naked, she scolded me for a long time and then over her lap. I know my
mother-in-law could hear and I could not help it. Once the spanking was
done I was told to put my underpants on, i was to face the wall in the
front room, I looked at her and she had that look and with a grip on my
arm I was led to the front room. My mother-in-law looked at me, sure is
loud isn't he, my wife smiled, always. I stood facing the wall, my
mother-in-law soon was standing behind me, these are not needed young
man and down came my underpants. That is better, very good job dear, I
said nothing. The rest of the time there was okay, the next to the last
day I showed the spanking did not correct the problem. Over my wife's
lap in the bedroom, a few swats already landed and my mother-in-law
walked in. Let me spank him she said and sure enough I was spanked my
my mother-in-law and she was harder than my wife.
Anon 2: I dated this woman (early 30's) I was mid 20's, she was born with a
silver spoon in her mouth. This I learned shortly after seeing her, I
thought I could handle it. We were staying at a nice beach front home
we rented for a week. Been out to dinner, met a couple that rented the
home next to us, nice couple. Well my girlfriend decided to show her
true colors and I was polite and asked her to be nice, she smiled and I
then said your acting like a spoiled little girl who needs a spanking,
she just looked at me and was not going to believe me.
A couple of
mornings later as she was stepping out of the shower, I watched her dry
off and commented how beautiful she was, she smiled and wrapping the
towel around her self told me she would be done soon. I took hold of
her arm and lead her to the bedroom I had a chair in the middle of the
room and soon had her across my lap. Won't be needing this and raised
her enough to remove the towel. I heard how dare you, I'm too old, don't
you dare, but soon my hand was landing on her bare bottom and she tried
to get off but I had a strong grip. She finally was pleading and
promising to be good, I told her she best do as I say from now on, she
agreed, I then reached under the chair and pulled out her hairbrush.
She saw it, please, NO, I'll be good, but I applied it and enjoyed how
she was squirming, crying, and when i stood her up she danced around the
room rubbing, crying. I told her naughty little girls will be given a
spanking, and you have been a very naughty little girl have you not, yes
she said.
I dated her for another year or so, she did receive other
spankings, but that first spanking she said was the worst and I must
agree.
Windy: Hi, Hermoine! I would say just in general in the past if it wasn't hard
enough... still learning back then like Amy and Eric..... and last
week, he broke a dowel rod on me. ROFL It was very thin and did not do
much more than a slight sting, but I thought it was hilarious he broke
it. He didn't think it was funny. Apparently, he's up to serious
business back there!! lol
Hermione: The early ones I had with my ex were not the greatest. There was a consistent theme running through them; he constantly reminded me that I was 'sick' to want to be spanked, and he was only doing it begrudgingly. Needless to say, that relationship didn't last.