Welcome back, dear friends. Let's get comfortable and chat about that activity that unites us. We can all agree that spankings have a start, a middle and an end (no pun intended). Let's think about the third part today.
How do your spankings end? Is there any kind of signal that lets you know a spanking is about to wrap up? Do you have a ritual that is performed at the end?
I'd love to hear what you have to say, so please leave your response as a comment below. I will publish an edited summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to speak.
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I don't think there's really an "over". We spank for play (as well for reconnection, when needed) so sometimes when we've moved on to the "playing" part of the evening he'll throw in a spanking interlude just to spice things up midway. Or he could be fingering WHILE spanking, and so on. Basically it's easier to tell with a reconnection / reset spanking, cos when he's done he'll toss the implement aside (if using one), and there's usually a letting out of a deep breath with something like a "come here" as he pulls me in for a long deep cuddle.
Hi Hermione,
No ritual as such. The actions that often signify the end of a spanking are Rick putting away the implement or more often than not grabbing my arm and pulling me up either for a cuddle or telling me to get on my knees lol
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Roz
I do have a little post play ceremony that I like to perform, just to put a polite full stop to the interaction. After I have stood up I like to shake the hand of the Top or Domme, give a little nodding bow and thank them for the painful attentions that I have received.
Prefectdt
Sometimes we will announce when we are wrapping up a spanking. It is also noticeable because the spanker starts to slow down.
The final spanks are delivered with a stern warning that I better behave. I must respond with Yes Mommie. When stood up, not allowed to rub, told to face the wall and once again I must say Yes Mommie. When my wall time is finished my "Mommie" will ask me if I'm going to be a good little boy, I say Yes Mommie. The worse of all is then I must go put on my jammies for the rest of the day, no matter who might drop in, I will be in my jammies. I go to bed early and in the morning to insure I behave given a bath.
The most common ending for us is one where Randy declares, "OK, you're done." If I respond with something other than, "Thank you, Sir," or a similar sentiment, then I am not done and onward we go.
It does depend on the type of spanking. Sometimes it's up you get and go about your business. Or other times it may be few more swats for you and then you are done.
Love,
Ronnie
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No ritual. I can usually tell when enough is enough. Even though I’m the one being spanked I do the driving so it’s up to me to say “when”. Usually I feel I could go on all day but I find after a certain time my wife’s limits have been reached (never mine) and it’s time to wrap up.
Yorkie
The spanking ends when she states sternly, "Face that Wall young man". She enjoys seeing her work, I dread standing there, no rubbing, no talking. Time varies. When I'm allowed to leave she tells me once again in a stern voice, Young Man you best behave, I respond Yes Mam.
I know when the spanking is about to end, my bare bottom is very warm and stinging and when my wife sternly ask will I be a good little boy, I must respond with Yes Mommie. She applies a few more spanks and then tells me to face the corner, I say Yes Mommie and get to the corner quickly. Mommie may not seem right to most to say, but when I deserve a spanking my wife said Mommies spank naughty little boys and so she is no longer my wife but my Mommie and I best do as Mommie saids. I must call her Mommie until she states otherwise, it makes me feel very little and reminds me who is in charge.
There isn't really a ritual, other than my wife saying "You're done." I can usually tell it's coming, though, because I get quite a few really hard smacks in rapid succession. I do say thank you and give her a hug after I'm allowed to stand up.
No ritual when my wife decides my bottom is red and hot enough we are done. Sometimes she will ask if I have had enough and usually the answer is yes, one I daringly said no and the smacks came fast and furious and took my breath away.
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