Sunday, October 4, 2015

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #93

Welcome back to another weekend spanko brunch. Today I'd like to discuss a topic that has always intrigued me. Bonnie introduced it several years ago and I think it's time to consider it again.

In your relationship, what does spanking do for the spanker? How does he or she benefit from spankings and related activities? What is his or her primary motivation to spank?

Leave your reply as a comment, and I will publish a summary of our discussion once everyone has had a chance to respond. Everyone is welcome to add their opinion, so don't be shy!
From Hermione's Heart

6 comments:

Dan - A Disciplined Hubby said...

Hi Hermione. For my wife, spanking increases her confidence and sense of power and control. It also allows her to "level the playing field" in a decisive way.

Ni Na said...

Hi Hermione, hubby likes that he is in control and that I obey. In addition to that it is what cleans the slate, so that we can move on without any negative thoughts left. Great question. Wishing you a great weekend.

hugs

Nina

Roz said...

Hi Hermoine, for Rick, he enjoys the control and dominance, plus it's a turn on :)

Hope you are having a great weekend :)

Hugs
Roz

Anonymous said...

For R it gives her self confidence and she actually enjoys spanking me. It also motivates me when I back off on some things that need to be done around the house. She also feels it shows her my submission to her as she will spank for any reason or no reason any time.
archedone

sixofthebest said...

To spank a woman, especially with a cane on her knickers down bare bottom, leaves me with a high sexual and erotic satisfaction. If she is wearing a garter-belt and stockings, that accent her naked rear end, it makes it even more delicious.

Anonymous said...

There is nothing more erotic and sexually exciting than to have a gorgeous bare bottom, adorned by lowered knickers, stockings and suspenders, as S of the B rightly says, draped over my lap, bouncing and quivering as I spank until it is red and smarting. Fortunately my other half enjoys a good spanking as much as I do, and also the sex that always follows.