Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for October 4

This week we pondered what the spanker gets out of a spanking relationship. We heard from both spankers and spankees.

Dan: For my wife, spanking increases her confidence and sense of power and control. It also allows her to "level the playing field" in a decisive way.

Nina: Hi Hermione, hubby likes that he is in control and that I obey. In addition to that it is what cleans the slate, so that we can move on without any negative thoughts left. Great question. Wishing you a great weekend.

Roz: Hi Hermoine, for Rick, he enjoys the control and dominance, plus it's a turn on :)

arched one: For R it gives her self confidence and she actually enjoys spanking me. It also motivates me when I back off on some things that need to be done around the house. She also feels it shows her my submission to her as she will spank for any reason or no reason any time.

Six of the best: To spank a woman, especially with a cane on her knickers down bare bottom, leaves me with a high sexual and erotic satisfaction. If she is wearing a garter-belt and stockings, that accent her naked rear end, it makes it even more delicious.

Anon: There is nothing more erotic and sexually exciting than to have a gorgeous bare bottom, adorned by lowered knickers, stockings and suspenders, as S of the B rightly says, draped over my lap, bouncing and quivering as I spank until it is red and smarting. Fortunately my other half enjoys a good spanking as much as I do, and also the sex that always follows.

Hermione: Ron likes the feeling of power and control it gives him. It also lets him blow off steam in a safe way when he's annoyed about something.

That's a fine variety of reasons. Have a wonderful week, everyone!