How important is spanking to you in relation to sex? Is a physical spanking necessary to put you in the mood? What about reading erotica or watching spanking videos? Are they a "must-have" or a "nice to have" for successful completion of bedroom activities? Are spanking fantasies playing in your head before or during the act?
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"How important is spanking to you in relation to sex?" Very. And always. I don't do 'punishment' spanking, so.... OTK bare-bottom spanking, giving or receiving, is extremely erotic, and the #1 reason I'M 1,000% AGAINST SPANKING KIDS!
"Is a physical spanking necessary to put you in the mood?" No; but it's a turn-on 'fer sure!
"What about reading erotica or watching spanking videos? Are they a "must-have" or a "nice to have" for successful completion of bedroom activities?" Not necessary at all. But talking to her and hearing her little perversions/thoughts/turn-ons is pretty hot.
"Are spanking fantasies playing in your head before or during the act?" No. It's more like sex fantasies are playing in my head during a spanking.
That help?
A.J.
How important is spanking to you in relation to sex? - It's really hard for me to separate them, so I'm not sure how to respond. Spanking is very important, sex is too, and they go together.
Is a physical spanking necessary to put you in the mood? - Spankings are the direct route to arousal, but not necessary the only one.
What about reading erotica or watching spanking videos? Are they a "must-have" or a "nice to have" for successful completion of bedroom activities? - We enjoy spanking media, but they are no substitute for the real thing.
Are spanking fantasies playing in your head before or during the act? - Sometimes. The best fantasies are the ones we can make real. We are very fortunate to get that opportunity. You mentioned before and during the act, but intense memories afterward can feed the next round of fantasies.
1) How important is spanking to you in relation to sex?
- I would like it to be a part of every session, but it's not necessary.
2) Is a physical spanking necessary to put you in the mood?
- Not necessary, but a really quick way to get there.
3) What about reading erotica or watching spanking videos?
- Usually done when I'm on my own, not a norm for 2-person encounters.
4) Are spanking fantasies playing in your head before or during the act?
- Nope. Talking about a particular spanking or reminiscing could help get us both a little more randy tho. Again, fantasising is usually something that happens when I'm going at it solo, not so much when I'm with BIKSS.
How important is spanking to you in relation to sex?
Inexricably linked for sure. I cannot think of spanking as anything BUT sexy.
Is a physical spanking necessary to put you in the mood?
Nope. But it sure does supercharge it!
What about reading erotica or watching spanking videos?
Reading erotica for sure but I am a bit picky. Videos? It depends but mostly I imagine me the one being spanked. If it's a hard spanking then the more it intrigues me.
Are they a "must-have" or a "nice to have" for successful completion of bedroom activities?
Definitely a nice to have. Not a must have.
Are spanking fantasies playing in your head before or during the act?
Usually before and then once the spanking begins the fantasy is fulfilled.
Yorkie
Spanking for us usually occurs prior to sex. However, not always. Spanking isn't always necessary to get us in the mood for sex.
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Roz
Thinking of getting a spanking during sex helps, I’ve often wonder what my partner is thinking of. This is a very good question and so yes thinking of getting a spanking from the one I’m presently having sex with or a few times other women come to mind. It can be no harm, she is getting my full attention and isn’t sexual activity really a lot of unknowns.
I was seeing an older woman, around 50 and I was mid 20's. I can't recall but I was not "preforming" like I wanted to and she understood. When she started to grip my bottom I improved and the more she grip the better it got. Lying besides her afterwards, she said not to worry, happens to all of us. She then surprised me, I know about your spanking magazines, found them hiding in the towel drawer in the bathroom. She continued to say when she grip my bottom knew I would improve, everyone has fantasy. A week or so later not thinking of that conversation, we had both taken a shower and drying one another off she took my arm and with a smile lets see if you like to be spanked. Dancing around afterwards, rubbing, she asked, well, I said yes I did, it hurt, but I did. Thinking back on this, this male feels good that an older woman taught me the ways of enjoying sexual activity.
If Eric throws a spanking in before or even during sex, it's different than if we just make love. We like the mix things up so it's a "nice to" but not necessarily a "need to".
Amy
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