Do you or your partner ever "brat" or act up in order to instigate a spanking? Why or why not? If so, what is the usual result of the bratting?
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We don't because it runs contrary to our more serious DD, and even our more playful D/s philosophy. For us, if it's about behavior, what could possibly worse than an INTENTIONAL provocation? And if it's for fun, why not just ask?
Now, we are only human and do have senses of humor, so a little playful bratting within a teasing atmosphere or context is fine and even natural. But for me to just use it as some passive/aggressive technique to get a spanking? No way. She would not be amused....and I would not feel good about myself even if it somehow "worked".
I do try to instigate a spanking and typically my wife picks up on it, tells me to bend over and with a paddle or belt or whatever she can grab, will give me a few good whacks. Typically this leads to sex.
The Misses will occasional do things that she knows annoys me. I always assumed it was to get me to spank her. She would keep it up until I would get fed up completely and haul her across my lap. I would spank her by hand until her bottom was bright red.
In answer to last week’s question: The Misses has come straight out and asked me to for a spanking. Since I love her I will oblige. I’ll take her to the kitchen and spank her bare bottom with my hand or if belt if I am wearing one at the time.
Not in our relationship. We've tried but because we aren't into punishments it doesn't work so we just give each other cheek regardless as all food friendships do.
Yorkie
*good. Doh!
Yorkie
Not in this family, my bottoms knows all to well the results of such behavior. At first I thought it would be fun, but it just took one long over her lap spanking that I did not wish to experience again. My wife knows when a spanking is needed and I dread when I hear "To the Bedroom, Young Man", company or no company, private, but can be heard and it depends who might be visiting, if its my mother-in-law or her best friend I'm taken from the bedroom, bare from waist down or naked to face the wall. Other times I must face the wall in the bedroom, only once did I not do as told, she checked on me, I was rubbing and starting to get dress, boy that second spanking, I don't even dream of leaving the wall or rubbing.
If we are both in a playful teasing mood, then I might push a button or two but that's just part of our back and forth banter. In our day to day ttwd relationship, I try to abide by our agreed to rules and expectations. ... nj
All the time. Usually but not always preceding a time for what we call a “date”. But it’s never very serious.
Sometimes however I’ll cop a few feels too many at bedtime and she’ll tie me up and whip me. I’ll then go to sleep for half the night, then wake up a wiggle out of my bonds - then be very ready for a date the ne t day.
Rosco
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