Sunday, August 31, 2014

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #35

Welcome to another weekend brunch, where we gather for good food and good conversation about spanking. We all enjoy it and do it - spanking, I mean. But why?

Are your spankings for erotic enjoyment, for stress relief, for discipline, or for some other reason? 

Please leave your reply as a comment and I will publish a summary of our discussion at the end of the long weekend.

From Hermione's Heart

24 comments:

sixofthebest said...

I love spanking a woman because of sexual and erotic enjoyment, plus on occasion, for disciplining.

abby said...

Yes, yes,yes and yes. Oh...for whatever reason He can make up...or for no reason at all.....
hugs abby

Minelle Labraun said...

Mine are a bit of attitude adjustment for me and erotic enjoyment for both of us.

Leigh Smith said...

Erotic enjoyment mostly, but sometimes stress relief but not mine - never discipline.

Downunder Don said...

Always for erotic pleasure...spanking is the best foreplay !!!

Dan - A Disciplined Hubby said...

Always for discipline, though that may give her more than a little erotic pleasure.

DelFonte said...

Erotic pleasure, some stress relief too. Never for discipline, though he does like to concoct excuses, I'm not truly held accountable by spanking.

Callie M said...

Discipline and punishment here.

Roz said...

Our spankings used to be for punishment, role affirmation and erotic. Now mainly erotic.

Hugs
Roz

*Bonnie* said...

He spanks me for erotic enjoyment, stress relief, attitude adjustment, because we have the house to ourselves but rarely discipline.

Autumn said...

All of the above!

Enzo said...

Check, check, and check...
all of the above!

Spanking her for stress relief and sometimes spanking her for as my stress relief.

Pecan nutjob said...

All of the above! It's like a continuum from sexual foreplay to "I'm nervous and I need a spanking" to "you are difficult today you need a spanking" to "you've done stupid really bad and you'll be spanked for it".

Anonymous said...

I'm with most of the rest. Sexual, erotic and because she just enjoys spanking me. She can and has given me punishment but not often.
archedone
P.S. I might add I love being spanked.

Anonymous said...

Erotic only. My smarting throbbing bottom, from a sound spanking, leaves me highly aroused, and as well the submissive positions I have to adopt for it make it excitingly clear that D is in control, and also leave me well posed for the good seeing-to I get on completion. Even more exciting is being tied in place, which leaves all my rear end nicely offered for whatever he has in mind for it . S.

Dr. Ken said...

Yes, or, if you prefer, all of the above. I think the majority of spankings I dish out, though, are of the "stress relief" kind. Spanking someone certainly relieves MY stress...

Baxter said...

My spankings are because I want to be spanked. I have been a spanko for over 40 years and have looked at pictures and read stories and always greatly aroused. It took me many years of marriage to convince my wife to spank me and now she enjoys doing it and really packs a wallop and the residual pain afterwards is what I enjoy as well as the pain during the actual spanking.
Baxter

Our Bottoms Burn said...

erotic enjoyment

Bonnie said...

We spank for lots of good reasons including stress relief, recreation, motivation, foreplay, reconnection, role play, and various combinations of these. Other times, we spank because Randy wants to spank me, because he thinks I need it, because he was a new toy, or for no reason at all.

We don't do punishment, but I find traditional corporal punishment scenarios to be a huge turn on.

In the end, the precise why isn't as important as the fact that our spankings happen. In conjunction with the lovemaking that follows, they restore the bond between us and reconfirm our roles within our relationship.

Loki_Darksong said...

Between my wife and myself, our spankings run the full spectrum with punishment type being very few and far between. Of late though the focus has been on stress relief. Both of us have been under increased strain of late and a good hard spanking does come in handy.

With others the range excludes any form of eroticism. Strictly within the range of stress relief, discipline, exploration and punishment.

Ni Na said...

Before my pregnancy we used spanking for all of these reasons and nce we can start again, they'll surely (hopefully)all be back.

hugs

Nina

ronnie said...

Yes, yes and yes and for whatever reason P decides.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

ricky said...

Erotic, but with no sex.
That is reserved for lovers.
As it should be.

Terpsichore said...

For joy, pleasure, flirtatious fun, foreplay, sensuality, and sexuality...or no reason at all I welcome it. While we do not practice discipline I find my own imagination wandering to stories involving corporal punishment. And there is many I time I feel I could benefit from a spanking to relieve stress; however we have not explored this much. For us it always ends in love making and connection.