Meme - Spanking Preferences

Bonnie shared this meme with her readers a while ago, and I thought I'd have some fun with it too.

Would you rather be spanked outside in a cold woodshed or inside by a cozy fire? Inside where it's nice and warm.

Would you rather be spanked in public or in private? In private.

Would you rather fantasize about spanking or actually be spanked? If I can't be spanked, imagining it is the next best thing.

Would you rather be spanked for your humiliation or for your spanker's pleasure? For my spanker's pleasure, and mine too.

Would you rather be spanked by hand or by hairbrush? Hand. It's more intimate.

Would you rather be spanked by belt or by cane? I'll take the belt any day.

Would you rather be spanked by paddle or riding crop? Both, in that order.

Would you rather be restrained or unrestrained during your spanking? I like restraints, but it's just as much fun without them.

Would you rather be spanked until you cried or until you are aroused? Aroused. I never cry during a spanking, because I enjoy them so much.

Would you rather have just a red bottom or welts/bruises? I don't mind welts or bruises but they aren't a necessity. A red bottom is just as rewarding.

Would you rather be spanked for the naughty things you have done or just because you enjoy the experience? I am never spanked for being naughty. We spank because we both enjoy it.

Would you rather be spanked with pants up/skirt down or pants down/skirt up? The first is usually the prelude to the second.

Would you rather be spanked with panties up or panties down? A little up, a lot down.

Would you rather be spanked somewhat clothed or entirely naked? I'm usually naked, but find retaining some clothing more exciting.

Would you rather your spanking be strictly disciplinarian or sexually attractive in nature? All our spankings are because of sexual attraction. We don't do disciplinary spankings.

Would you rather be spanked by a male or by a female? Male, specifically my husband.

Would you rather be cuddled or scolded after your spanking? Cuddled.

Would you rather be spanked OTK or bent over a table/chair? I enjoy both.

Would you rather your spanker have physical contact with you? Uh, yeah, that's what it's all about.

Would you prefer to be spanked in the woods with a tree branch, bent over the hood of a car, or in a school with a ruler bent over the desk of your teacher/principal? Definitely with a ruler over the desk, just like I used to do with my dolls and teddies when I was a child.

Would you rather be a brat to your spanker to deserve a spanking or simply ask your spanker for a spanking because you know you needed it? Bratting gets me nowhere. If I need one I ask, but Ron decides when and where.

Have you received a spanking in the past week? Oh, yes.

Would you rather be spanked for the physical pleasure or the emotional release? Both happen during and after a spanking.

Would you rather tell your best friends you enjoy be spanked or keep it secret? I wouldn't tell.

Would you rather spanking be a lifestyle choice or just something you dabble in? It's a lifestyle choice. I was born this way.

Would you rather your lover be a vanilla or a spankoholic too? A spanko just like me.

Would you rather be spanked by a stranger or by someone who knew you well? It would have to be someone I know well, and who knows me well. And there's only one person in that category.

Would you rather be spanked by despotic, mean person or by a compassionate, benevolent person? The second.

Would you rather be talked to while you are spanked or no talking at all? I would love to hear all the words and phrases that get my juices flowing.

Would you rather get one swat at a time with pauses to let the sting set in or a continuous tanning to build up the fire? I would like some of the first and a lot of the second.

Would you rather be forced into a spanking or willingly submit into a spanking? Forcing wouldn't be consensual. I will always willingly submit.

Would you rather have a safe word or be pushed beyond your preconceived limits? We don't have a safe word. It isn't something we ever considered or even knew about until two years ago. I like being pushed to my limit, which always manages to creep ahead.

Would you rather your spanker know your spanking history or is ignorance bliss? He knows my history, because he was there for it.

Would you rather be spanked by multiple people at one time or just by one person at one time? Just one.

Would you rather be spanked once a day or once every few months? Once a day.

Would you rather your spanker be deeply in tune or be totally unaffected to your experience as a spankee? I would hope he was in tune with my wants and needs.

Would you rather a closer physical relationship or a closer emotional relationship with your spanker? I haven't experienced one without the other; they're hard to separate.

Would you rather your spanker ice your bottom down after a spanking or send you to the corner to display his/her accomplishment? Corners don't appeal to me, but neither does ice. A nice massage with some body lotion wouldn't go amiss.

Would you rather your spanker be the person you wish to live the rest of your life with (i.e. marriage) or the person you can call on when your tushy tickles? The person I'm spending the rest of my life with.

Would you rather spanking be a part of love making or not a part of love making? It is usually a part of love making, but I would like to try it as a standalone activity. A spanking for its own sake might be fun in a different way.

Would you rather your spanker have total control over you when you are being spanked or do you still want to have some control while you are being spanked? I like giving up control to my spanker, but he doesn't mind if I make a request.

Would you rather be humiliated or respected during your spanking? I would never want to be humiliated.

Would you rather spanking become part of a bigger BDSM alternative lifestyle or spanking just be spanking for spanking sake? It would be interesting to try a little BDSM, but spanking is our main focus.

Would you rather be filmed during a spanking to share your exhibitionist naughtiness or are you too modest to show your bum to the world? I wouldn't want to be filmed in any way. I don't like pictures taken of any part of my anatomy.

Would you rather your spanking be gentle and gradual or painful and abrupt? Either works for me.

Would you rather be defiant or fearful going into a spanking? I'm usually quite eager and perhaps just a little apprehensive, in a good way.

Would you rather be spanked exclusively in your own bedroom or anyplace else other than your own bedroom? The bedroom is our usual spanking location, but I'm taking steps to move our activity into other parts of the house.

Would you rather be spanked exclusively on your bottom or other places could be interesting too? I prefer it on my bottom. The backs of my thighs are fair game too, but I would never want to be spanked on any other part of my body.

Would you rather a spanking be a surprise or be something you have to look forward to? I like the anticipation of a spanking I know is going to happen, but I love surprises.

Would you rather spanking be a part of role playing kinkiness or a response to events that have happened in reality? We don't role play, although I would like to try it someday. Spanking in response to real events is usually a stress-relief spanking, and they're so important.